Clockwise from top: Brenda Rosenberg and Ismath Khan, both of Bloomfield Hills, chat during a discussion group. Rabbi Herbert Yoskowitz speaks at an event that brought Jews and Muslims together. Salah Aboubkr of Sterling Heights, Dr. Allen Berlin and Shaan Baig, 13, both of Bloomfield Hills, Osama Hadid, 12, and Fayiz Hadid, both of West Bloomfield, participate in a discussion. Victor Be,o- is a Bloomfield Hills Board of Education member. Opposite page: Two women, a Jew and a Muslim, listen intently. and beliefs," she said. After the speakers, participants were asked to break up into smaller discus- sion groups. For the next hour, using pre-printed "Conversation Starters" as a guide, Jews and Muslims engaged in discussion — some lively, some heated. Many Muslims expressed dismay at the way the Sept. 11 attacks have dis- torted the world view of the Islamic religion "I came here today because I'm frus- trated that there haven't been enough Muslims speaking out about what an anti-Islamic act this was," said Angela Salva of Bloomfield Hills. Hassan Eolibi, an engineer from Bloomfield Hills, agreed. "This was beyond criminal; it was crazy," he said. "Islam is a way of life; it means loving your neighbor. One of my best friends was a policeman who was killed trying to rescue people from the World Trade Center. This hurts us like it hurts any- one. . " Zaynalo Salman, a University of Michigan-Dearborn student, also felt it was important to clarify that the ter- rorist attacks were totally against the teachings of Islam. "Islam was hijacked on Sept. 11, using religion as a scapegoat, and now all Muslims are suffering," she said. Salman added that Islam sets forth strict guidelines for war; combat must take place on a battlefield, and it is unlawful to destroy mountains or other landscape. Jackier asked Muslim members in her discussion to comment on the notion that the terrorists believed they would be rewarded for their acts in an afterlife. "There is no way they can be rewarded for killing innocent people," Salva said. "Islam teaches that you cannot kill innocent people, even in times of war — no women, no chil- dren, no elderly. If they were wrongly told that they'd be rewarded, then I feel sorry for them." "A martyr is someone who speaks out for his beliefs in a very dignified manner, never someone who kills innocent people," Salman said. Looking To Heill Linda Finkel came to the program because of her dual roles as a Bloomfield Hills School Board mem- ber and a part of the Detroit Jewish community "The community is looking for ways to heal itself, and this is a wonderful way to do that," said Finkel of Bloomfield Hills. "I'd never been to anything like this, and I wanted to be a part of it," said Donna Raphael of Bloomfield Township, who attended with her hus- band, Steve. "I met and talked with a lot of people here and realize how lit- tle I know." Said Don Silversmith of Southfield, "What brought me here was the real- ization that Jews and Muslims share a closer heritage than Jews and the majority of the Christian community. The Jewish community has been demonizing Muslims because of their perceived antipathy toward Israel. This is a rare opportunity to have a one-on- one dialogue." Brenda Rosenberg of Bloomfield Hills, a member of the event planning committee, said the day gave both cul- tures the chance to better understand and honor their differences. "The world is like a magnificent quilt; it's the differences that make it so beautiful," she said. AJC's Beitner said the Jewish and Muslim sponsors of the event were very pleased with the result. In addi- tion to food donations, 51,845 was collected for the American Red Cross. "It was an excellent catalyst for ongo- ing communication between the two communities," said co-chair Jackier. "We're planning many future programs, including a dialogue between Muslim and Jewish women." ❑ 10/19 2001