HOME DELIVERY from page 35 mother. Because I'm a volun- teer-nik." A few years ago, Bernie Winer of Southfield was asked by a buddy if he would like to help out on Wednesdays. "At first, it helped get me out of my wife's hair one day a week," he quips. "But Meals on Wheels has become very important to me. I'm very glad I was asked and can help." There's no disputing the camaraderie present among the Wednesday regulars. This day, about eight men gathered around a dining room table sharing jibes and jokes while waiting to load up their cars. Two women are comforting a fellow volunteer who was recently widowed. On this Monday, double deliveries were made in recognition of Rosh Hashanah, because no delivery would occur Tuesday. "When we have a bad weather emer- gency," says Asarch, "the law says our clients must have three days of nonperishable food in their homes. So extra packing and driv- ing is needed then as well." Often, volunteers recruited by Jewish Family Service help out in those situations. Lil Chinitz of West Bloomfield has worked with Meals on Wheels for 20 years. "She taught me everything I know," says Asarch, who has been with the program 19 years. "Yes, but she's the chief. I'm just an Indian," insists Chinitz. Jill Greenspan Gun of Birmingham and Jo Rosen of West Bloomfield are exceptions to the typical Meals on Wheels volunteer. The two longtime friends, both forty- something, share a route each Wednesday. "It's our way of helping and spending true quality time together," says Greenspan Gun. "When my own mother died five years ago, I missed conversation with older w _ omen," .Rosen says. Both women attest to forming bonds with and gaining wisdom from their clients. When one woman who had treated them like granddaughters passed away, both Jill and Jo were mentioned in her eulogy. Although both women hold jobs, sympa- thetic employers have allowed them their Wednesday mornings. The cadre of available daytime volunteers has dwindled tremendously because so many women have returned to work and workers of either gender delay retirement age. Nonetheless, Asarch would love to see some new, willing workers of any age group step forward. "I'm hoping the sisterhoods and other organizations with active, vital people will be able to help us in the future," Asarch says. "The time commitment is small, but the contribution is enormous." ❑ To volunteer for Meals on Wheels, call the NCJ W. at (248) 355 330. - Clockwise from top: Midge Stein of Bloomfield Hills checks off meals for each delivery order. John Steanhouse and Rhoda Rosin, both of Detroit, prepare the meal packages for delivery. Florence Ashin of Oak Park checks a cooler full of meals before she takes off to deliver them with her husband Irv.