‘2 1TERC3 lited1/4.41iNV.', ;e: s` r^ With deep pleasure, we wish everyone a very Happy and Healthy New Year. May you be inscribed in The Book of Life. the end, it was his des- tiny and he had to go. How do we know our true calling? Rick Jarow, in his beautiful set of audiotapes titled "Your Life's Work," explains: "The sense of calling has its origins in the deepest recesses of our being. It is the call of the heart which is not necessarily heard as a physical voice, but often as a feeling, as a yearning, or even as a restless sense that something is missing in our life. "This sense of call- ing is literally the breath of the divine emerging through the clamor and haste of the world. To follow it is to make your very life beautiful no matter what the circum- stances. "To listen to it is to respect yourself; to honor it is the first step in the creation of an open, free, and compassionate society; and to cultivate it is the work that pleases the inner being. And when the inner being is pleased, the world will smile upon it." When varied human beings come together, each following a unique call- ing, they create a beautiful, complex masterpiece. Each has a role in perfect- ing the world as a kingdom of God. A story about Sir Michael Conti rehearsing the London Symphony to play Beethoven's Ninth Symphony illus- trates this truth. The full orchestra and a large chorus were singing the fourth movement, when the piccolo player suddenly stopped playing. He said to himself, "Everybody else is so loud, they cannot hear me any- how. What is the difference if I play?" Sir Conti suddenly stopped the rehearsal and shouted, "Where is the piccolo? I do not hear the piccolo!" Sometimes we need to take time out of our lives to consider our mission. We need to disappear from work and family obligations for a brief period. Even a week in the mountains or a day at the beach can help. During one particularly difficult year, the demands of my synagogue were pulling me in too many direc- "We are not the same as our parents. They certainly raised us and gave us our values, and therefore they are worthy of honor, but we are not here to live their lives or fulfill their dreams. We have our own unique gifts to give the world and our own mission ,, to complete. • Pasta Specialties • Pizza • Steaks• Chops • Poultry • Seafood • Cocktails OPEN DAILY - LUNCH & DINNER OPEN WEEKDAYS UNTIL 2:00 AM WEEKENDS UNTIL 3:30 AM A Ferndale Favorite Since 1961 Woodward at 9 Mile • (248) 548-5005 — Rabbi Michael Gold tions. I had lost my focus. I took a week by myself in the Pocono Mountains to think and re-evaluate. My strength has always been as a teacher applying the wisdom of the past to the human realities of today. I needed to concentrate on this mission. That summer is when I began writing my book. Each of us ought to study our own lives at times, perhaps coming away with some deep and useful insight: "Aha! This is why God put me on this earth." Try to write your life's mission as an "elevator speech." Suppose you were on an elevator moving down from the fifth floor with a total stranger. You have about thirty seconds, until you reach the first floor, to describe your life's mission. What would you say? ❑ — The above article is adapted from Rabbi Michael Gold's new book, "The Ten Journeys of Life: Walking the Path of Abraham" (Health Communications, $10.95), available from Simcha Press. Rabbi Gold, the spiritual leader of Temple Beth Torah in Tamarac, Fla., can be reached through his Web site at www.rabbigold.com. • Excellent choices for lunch specials. ef HONG HUA 117 : 1 41 FINE CHINESE DINING kot— • We cater parties • (-rift certificates available 27925 ORCHARD L.Ala. ROAD • FARMINGTON HILLS 248-489-2280 HOURS: 11 A - Si vl N n. \S A \VI I K JN 9/14 2001 R63