ers throughout the United Stares are enthusiastic about Jewish preschools, their enthusiasm does not translate into scholarship money. "One of the things that bothered me at the time was we were both Jewish communal workers. We felt they wouldn't even help one of their own," Jason Roskind said. The best the Pitt Center could do was to offer the Roskinds a fee of $1,024 a month, the rate charged for five-day-a-week care at Raffi's age group the year before. This is the school's standard discount for JCC employees. "If they had come back to Bonnie and me and asked what would we be able to handle if they could knock some off the fees, 5675 was what we decided," Jason Roskind said. Fredelle Schneider, Pitt Center direc- tor, said the center, which opens its renovated and expanded facilities Aug. 28, has no scholarship money available for infant, toddler or transition care. "We do have very minimal scholar- ships ar the preschool level, but we have no endowments. The money comes from whatever contributions someone wants to make to us," Schneider said. "Until somebody endows us, we don't have a lot of funds to stretch. "We try to provide something for people who need it — it might be 5 percent or 10 percent, but at least it's a little something." Without scholarship support, the best the Roskinds could do was a home-based day care center. It was fully accredited, but not Jewish. They paid $550 a month. Now that Bonnie is pregnant and feeling under the weather, she and Raffi are staying home. "I most certainly would have pre- ferred Jewish-oriented day care," Jason Roskind said. "It's one thing for my child to learn about different religions, but, in the very formative years, it's better to learn about your own reli- gion." A Little Help As co-president of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit's Alliance for Jewish Education, Dr. Lynda Giles realizes the need for a cen- tralized program of financial aid for Jewish preschool families. "It's an issue we've been talking about for many years," she said. "In terms of communal need, things were prioritized. Now we are looking at preschools with a microscopic eye." "In the past four or five years, early education has been taken more seri- ously," said Harlene Appelman, direc- tor of Federation's Alliance. "There's been a tremendous amount of research that points to the fact that, particularly in the area of brain devel- opment, character development and language acquisition, we need to begin to instill education as early as possible — not to mention that the Talmud has said that for 2,000 years." But Jewish education is not cheap. On the average, a parent needs $12,000 a year, about $1,000 a month, for full-day nursery and day care, Appelman said. Just saying the number is a daunt- ing realization," she said. "If, in fact, we agree that early edu- cation is the first step in a child's Jewish education — and if we agree that the more Jewish children we can get into Jewish education the more likely we can connect with them and their families — then we need to make affordable early education a reality," Appelman said. For about a year, Naomi Silverman of Royal Oak received a grant for her daughter Sophie, now 2i/2, to attend Temple Emanu-El's preschool and extended care program cally backed against a wall in Oak Park. Silverman and will have to pound the paid $512 each month, pavement to find another plus the fee for extended day care-extended care that care — about $330 a will not provide Jewish tra- month less than she ditions and teaching along would have paid for the with her education." same services without Temple Emanu-El's the scholarship. Silverman said the issue "is However, the funds not just about Naomi." did not come from "I think preschool schol- Emanu-El itself but Dr. Lynda Giles arship money should be from anonymous donors, available for anyone who is who withdrew their support at the on a tight budget and wants their chil- close of the 2000-2001 school year. dren to have a Jewish educational "I was told there are monies avail- experience." able but they are labeled only for 'edu- Dottie Levitsky recently retired as cational' purposes," Silverman wrote in director of Adat Shalom's nursery and a letter to several leaders in the Jewish kindergarten in Farmington Hills, one community. "I tried to argue this phi- of the Jewish community's largest losophy because I see my child's day preschools. "I hated to turn anyone care and extended care as very much away because of money," she said. "I educational." usually could find something some- Silverman, a single parent, said she where. But I think some people didn't does nor blame Temple Emanu-El. She even come to me to ask." knows that preschool director Michaelyn Silverman (no relation) had A National Concern to "scramble" to find her the grant. "I feel this is a shande [disgrace] with Throughout the United States, schol- regard to the Jewish community and arships for Jewish daycare and pre- its teachings," she wrote. "If I do not school are difficult to obtain. have this problem resolved, I am basi- However, it's not because Jewish