p HE AT THE 7 SPIRITUAL MESSENGER from page 78 • •• L cM SOUTHFIELD Perelman's brother Baruch HaLevi is studying to be a rabbi with Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz (author of Does the Soul Survive?, see related story) in California, and the family has always held a deeply religious belief system. "I knew how to get spirituality through my son's theology," says Jan. "But this is foreign. I have to suspend belief about what Rebecca does and delve deeper to relate it to a Jewish context." As her loving and supportive broth- er, HaLevi deems Rebecca "a model of pure ideals and what is possible if and when you believe in yourself and your vision." He believes she has been cho- sen to do what she does. HaLevi recalls Rebecca's high school years when boys lined up wanting to date her. "Becky graciously and confi- dently turned them down. It wasn't that she was snobbish or prudish; she was both comfortable with being alone and an idealist. She had a dream of her prince charming and she could not and would not settle for anything else. "Others told her she was crazy," remembers HaLevi. "They didn't understand her ways then and I'm sure they still don't fully understand now Becky was true to herself and, in the end, she was right, both in regard to finding her prince and in regard to her gift with the realm beyond." For Shelly, who always has had a completely open relationship with his daughter, acceptance comes easily. "Becky's my telephone operator," he says. "When she tells me something I b, do it." (He's in Santa Fe this month finishing a book he's writing, per Rebecca's instruction.) Shelly muses that it must have been hard for his daughter to go from being a young Jewish college woman to a psychic medium who feels an awesome responsibility to all those around her. "She receives words from a higher power and feels an overriding need to share that gift," he says. "It's energy we can't see, feel or touch. But all of us are searching — and most people are ready to hear." When Shelly's mother came to Rebecca, the young psychic medium began telling Shelly things she couldn't know, including details about her grandmother's suicide. "It was cathartic for me. I've since had lots of conversations with Mom and I got rid of my guilt about her suicide," he says. "I believe we're all guided by guardian angels and those who love us. Accept it as a truth and it lightens your burdens." This seems to be a recurring theme that runs through the readings Perelman provides for her clients. Steve Mandell, a Southfield psycholo- gist, admitted his skepticism, but says he came away impressed. "My whole concept of life and death has opened up," he says. "Death is not to be feared. I walked out of the read- ing with a sense of calm and serenity." Attorney Steinberg, 37, a Reconstructionist Jew, who grew up in a Conservative Jewish household, believes in a spiritual world and tries to accept different philosophies and religions. "Had I evaluated the reading as an attorney, I would be skeptical," says Steinberg. "But I didn't put a judg- ment on it, or an emotional value. My grandmother, may she rest in peace, is a guide in my life, and I spoke to her. I walked away hopeful." Brian, Rebecca's young fiance, admits he was indifferent to her gift at first. "Not skeptical, just indiffer- ent. I've never asked for a reading. I prefer to keep our professional lives separate. But I believe it's her respon- sibility to share her gift." For Brian, Rebecca is simply the woman with whom he wants to spend the rest of his life. "My connection to her was immediate," he says. May 5 & 6 pefevtParx Direct from New York! Fly away to Neverlancl with all your favorite characters from the classic story. May19 & 20 Bedelick cold the Bab y cold ofhev stovies Wacky, lovable Amelia is at it again and this time she's bringing along her friends from other "little books" to share the excitement. Performances are held at the Millennium Centre,15600 J. L. Hudson Drive, Southfield (adjacent Providence Hospital). Show times are Saturdays at 11 a.m. & 2 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m. only. Tickets just $6 (advance) or $10 (at the door). Call the Youtheatre Ticket Office for more information at (248) 557-PLAY or on-line at www.youtheatre.org Don't Mi55Youtheatre's summer drama camp, Class ACT, July 29-August10, for campers ages 7-12. Ask fora brochure when you call the box office at (248) 557-PLAY Delivering The Message So what, exactly, happens when you sit across from Perelman on the couch in the coffee shop? She simply asks your complete name, then says a brief prayer of protection from ghosts, or negative spirits. Almost immediately, she "sees orbs or energy balls, like bubbles. It's the soul of a spirit." Sometimes, they will turn into human shapes or different images. Always, she's clairaudient (able to hear voices clearly); sometimes she's clairvoyant. "Everything I hear or see is from someone who 'crossed over,"' she says. "I don't read minds or predict futures; I just deliver messages." She hands over the session to God and to spirit guides, the spirits of those who have lived a human life. Spirit guides orchestrate the conversation. When you no longer need the vessel of a body, and you have learned and evolved to the point where you can empathize fully, you don't come back as a person, you become a spirit guide, according to Perelman. God oversees all. He sends the spirit guides and the angels. 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