. Community Spirituality , P.44-1,7", SHELL' LIEBMAN DORFMAN Staff Writer E musical director Penny Steyer of Commerce Township sang and played guitar, several participants also tapped on timbrels, symbolizing the tam- bourine played by Miriam in the Passover story "The seder's focus is to give women pride in their own sense of history." Nelson says. "We hope also that it can help the synagogue become a place for women to devel- op relationships with other women." ❑ llen Dorshow-Gordon drove all the way from Kalamazoo to Congregation Beth Shalom in Oak Park on April 11 to participate in a women's seder. And she brought a carload of people with her, says Alicia Nelson of Southfield, who chaired the sixth annual event at the synagogue. "We drew a very wide spectrum of people — several genera- fiaCbc tions from different parts of the community," Nelson says of the 150 participants, about 60 percent of whom are syn- agogue members or their relatives. "We had peer groups, women who invited their friends and young, single women who feel very much at home here." The group followed a vg;Mv.. Haggadah filled with readings and verses com- Alicia Nelson of Southfield pats a timbrel created by Judaic piled from existing artist Betsy Platkin Teutsch while Penny Steyer of women's Haggadot. Commerce Township plays the guitar. Created by a committee, overseen by Dorshow- Gordon, Wendy Robin of Huntington Woods and Judith Adler of Birmingham, the Haggadah is updated yearly and includes original works contributed by seder partici- pants. "The Voice of the Silent Child," a passage written by the three women, was among those read at the seder. "It talks about the Holocaust and the voice that isn't heard," Nelson says. "One of the eight New Americans present read it in English and then summarized it in Russian." While cantorial soloist and seder . .` • Sarah Castator, 11, of Farmington Hills, raises a cup of wine with her grandmother Ruth Bressler, of West Bloomfield. 4/27 2001 58 et Shalom seder brings women together through music, verses and camaraderie. Above: Susan Lichterman and her daughter, Allie, 6, of Huntin , on Woods, read the Hagg, h Right: Ena Anurova of Oak Parkfollows the seder with Sarah Bernstein, 13, of Oak Park and Lily Morrison, 5, of Huntington Woods.