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He couldn't put it down, but was also quite upset by it. Am I doing him more of a favor by leveling with him about the Holocaust, or should I be reassuring him that such a thing could never happen again? appropriate women with varying degrees of suc- cess. I'm at a loss as to how I can help him, if at all. —Trying Hard To Help I've heard of cars going from zero to 40 in a mat- WEN DY ter of seconds, but people? BELZB ERG What has he been doing Speci al to for the past 20 years when the Jewis h News everyone else in his age group was dating, mating and settling down? —Grappling With The Shoah Does it really come as a surprise You can't lie to your child. You to you — or to him — that the can, however, edit the information age-appropriate females who you feed him. To say it can't hap- would meet his religious require- pen again is a lie; to reassure your ments have moved on with their child that Hitler's Germany was a lives? Before investing any more unique -historic phenomenon is time, energy or postage trying to not. help your brother, consider the The real question, sadly, is larg- reality: he has had plenty of time er than what happened during to find the right person on his World War II. At some point, we own. Is it possible you are more all have to grapple with the intent on finding him a wife than wrenching task of explaining to he is? Or perhaps he is enjoying our children that, as Jews, we have being taken care of by his older been, and may again, be persecut- brother and prefers his current cir- ed for our religious beliefs. And cumstance to having to grow up imparting a sense of history, and and contemplate taking care of our unique place in it as Jews, is somebody else? part of your parental responsibility. Your brother is 40. He is old Only you know if your son is enough to find a wife for himself ready to hear the whole truth, but he is looking for one. Stop spin- whatever you tell him now should ning your wheels. Or, if you really prepare him for that eventual reali- want to help, set him up with a ty. good therapist, who may well be the right kind of woman for him Dear Wendy: just now. ❑ My youngest brother, Azer, is 40 and not married or dating anyone seriously. He is a Kohen and will not marry a widow, Write to "Ask Wendy" at 954 divorcee or a convert, which Lexington Ave. #189, New York, excludes most of the eligible NY 10021, or e-mail women I know in his age catego- askwendy@thejewishnews.corn ry. My relatives in Toronto have in the past introduced him to