Insight Remember When • • Embracing Dr. Laura From the pages of the Jewish News for this week 10, 20, 30, 40 and 50 years ago. Loved and hated, Laura Schlessinger gets award from Jewish group. JULIE WIENER Jewish Telegraphic Agency In Defense When asked hard questions, she is just New York as assertive — some or Laura Schlessinger — better known as "Dr. might say aggressive Laura" — the fact that Jews were among the most — as on her shows. vocal opponents of her new nationally syndicated Asked about the television show was "more devastating to me than if fact that many crit- someone had burned a cross upside down on my front lawn." ics find her rude Schlessinger, the lightning rod of a talk-show host whose and mean to sharp tongue and moralistic advice have earned her mil- callers, Schlessinger lions of fans and enemies, is a close second to Joseph objects. They may Lieberman as America's most famous observant Jew. say that, she says, Yet Schlessinger's controversial radio and television shows but they really have been embraced far more enthusiastically by Christians mean something than by fellow Jews. Many Jews bristle at her one-liner else. approach to morality and her outspoken opposition to things "What they're like feminism, abortion and homosexuality. really saying is that Last week, however, at an Orthodox Jewish gala where I'm forcefully put- she received the "National Heritage" award, Schlessinger ting forth morals, — whose TV show recently was moved to overnight time values and ethics, slots after a massive grassroots campaign by gay-rights not making them advocates — said she felt vindicated. debatable points, The program for the National Council of Young Israel but making them dinner described Schlessinger as "a powerful source of Laura Schlessinger absolutes," inspiration and pride for all Jews. ,, Schlessinger says. "They don't like that. So instead of dealing with that truth, I get called names." Finding Judaism A letter sent to her last year, whose signatories included 24 Born to a Jewish father and a Catholic mother, Schlessinger, American Jewish leaders — many of them prominent Reform 54, grew up in an Italian section of Brooklyn, raised with and Conservative rabbis — took Schlessinger to task for say- "no religion, no God, zippo in that department." ing that homosexuality is "deviant," that gays can and should She earned degrees in biology and physiology — and is a be cured and that homosexuality is a "biological error." licensed marriage, family and child counselor who was in private Advocates for gay rights began a campaign last spring pressuring practice for 12 years — but became best known for her sharp- advertisers not to use ,Schlessinger's radio or television programs. tongued show. Then, several years ago, prompted by a question The TV show eventually was moved to middle-of-the-night hours from her son, Schlessinger began poring over books on Judaism. with small viewership because so many advertisers pulled out. "When I got to 'nation of priests,' I went yelling into the Despite the campaign against her, Schlessinger insists her room my husband was in and said, 'I know what I'm sup- views on homosexuality have divine sanction. "The Torah posed to do now — I'm a priest.'" says this is behavior that's unacceptable, and marriage is She completed a Conservative conversion process, then between a man and woman," she says. after a 1997 incident — she claims she was unjustly criti- For Schlessinger, Judaism is about absolutes, the clear cized for advocating observance of Jewish law and kashrut rights and wrongs of the Ten Commandments, not the — she underwent an Orthodox conversion. Her husband hairsplitting debates of the talmudic sages. and son converted as well. Schlessinger's rabbi, Moshe Bryski, insists that — sound- In person, she is surprisingly small, a petite blonde. She bites aside — his most famous congregant is serious about urges a reporter to eat more -- "I'm a Jewish mother," she the moral questions she receives, researching Jewish ethics says — and jokes that while the pears on her plate are and frequently calling him to consult on issues that arise on undercooked, they are "probably good for the intestines." her show. Schlessinger is more like a loving nag than the Now a member of a Lubavitch shul — Chabad of Agoura in unfeeling judge some portray, Rabbi Bryski says. suburban Los Angeles — Schlessinger admits that she does not "It's like the mother who goes to her children like this, 'Shame meet all Orthodox standards. She observes Shabbat and on you, you shouldn't be doing that,"' he says, wagging his fin- kashrut, she says, but doesn't wear a wig. ger. "When a parent says that to a child, its not out of hate." ❑ I' -.40Aitourzia The West Bloomfield Planning Commission recommended officials deny Temple Shir Shalom's plans to build a new facility, citing parking and traffic problems. The problems were resolved and the synagogue was built. Charlotte Rothstein of Oak Park marked 10 years as the city's mayor. Cantor Howard Glantz joined the Adat Shalom Synagogue staff. 1981 Theodore Cummings of California was named U.S. ambassador to Austria. The Israel softball league opened its third season in Tel Aviv. Joan Provizer of Farmington Hills was named to chair the Metropolitan Detroit Chapter of Hadassah's annu- al Israel Bonds luncheon. IOW , Israeli farmers filed claims for $700,000 in crop damage caused by severe storms that swept Israel. Sylvan Fox, associate editor of the New York Times, finalized plans to make aliyah to Israel. For the first time, Passover meals will be served on United and Eastern airlines. Forty Jews in Casablanca were brou before a magistrate for alleged offenses against the security of the state. Marilyn Lucas, 18-year-old Detroit pianist, soloed with the Wayne State University Orchestra under the direction of Valter Poole. A German court sentenced Josef Heitreiter, former Gestapo guard at Treblinka, to life in prison. At Detroit's North End Clinic, treat- ments of cortisone, a new miracle drug, saved the sight of two Detroiters. Composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein was named hon- orary national chair of World Jewish Child's Day carried out by the Pioneer Women's Organization. —Compiled by Sy Manello, editorial assistant go, 3/16 2001 31