Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.com Few Years, Many Accomplishments DIANA LIEBERMAN Staff Writer M atthew Droz spent his life looking out for the needs of others. An only child, he had unusual rapport with older people and was a leader among his friends at Michigan State University. He encouraged the brain- injured children his mother tutored in their Farmington Hills home, telling them at every sign of improvement, "Now you're really college material." For more than three years, Mr. Droz fought his own health battle with a closed head injury suffered in 1997, Matthew when he fell off a college loft ladder. Mr. Droz died in his sleep Feb. 16 from one of the intermittent seizures that resulted from his fall. He was home from MSU to say goodbye to his par- ents before they left for a vacation in Rome. He was 23 years old. A marketing major who was due to graduate in May, Mr. Droz planned a career that would add ethics to the world of advertising. "He loved to sell and was very con- cerned that the commercials for casinos showed not what really happens in a casino but showed gambling as a way to a better life," said his mother, Marilyn. When he was about 13 years old, Mr. Droz, working with his mother, com- pleted a research project on the market- ing of video games. It showed that the industry was targeting advertising for violent video games to young people under age 15 "I took all the research and sent it to United States senators," said Marilyn Droz. "Then I testified to a senate sub- committee." As a result of this testimony and oth- ers, video games are now rated according to age, she said. Mr. Droz also worked with his moth- er as a part of the volunteer group National Coalition Against Television Violence. While a student at North Farmington High School, he was twice 2/23 2001 104 named state champion in the annual competition of DECA, a national asso- ciation of marketing students. "Along with being a family mem- ber, he was a good friend," said Mr. Droz's aunt, Nancy Vicknair of Lakeland, Mich. "He was so upbeat about everything — he wouldn't burden you with his problems," she said. "Instead, he'd listen to you." Vicknair said her late mother had Alzheimer's dis- ease and her father has dementia. "Matt would treat both his grandparents with digni- ty," she said. "He had lots of friends, but he still spent time with his family." Mr. Droz's fiancee, Amy Droz Weinberger of West Bloomfield, said she knew she could telephone him "any time of the day and he was so excited it was as if he hadn't spoken to me in weeks." "He never hung up after a conversa- tion without saying he loved me," she said. At Mr. Droz's Feb. 19 funeral, about a dozen of his friends memorialized him with the Pink Floyd song Wish You Were Here. Leading the singing on guitar was Benjamin Manson of Farmington Hills. In a memorial letter to his late friend, Manson remembered "the street corner in Birmingham where we would sit on the window ledge for hours talking, our late nights at Silverman's, our adventures in Spartan country." "Considering all that has been said, I guess I don't have to say goodbye since I know that you will always be with me in my heart," Manson wrote. Matthew Droz is survived by his par- ents, Alan and Marilyn Droz; grandpar- ents, Ethel Droz and Murray Chayet; fiancee, Amy Weinberger; aunts and uncles, Nancy and Bill Vicknair, Howard Droz and Sharon and Sandor Katan. He was the loving grandson of the late Louis Droz and the late Karoline Chayet. Interment at Adat Shalom Memorial Park. Contributions may be directed to the Matthew Droz Memorial Fund — Closed Head Injury Association. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑ Hospice Hero, Humanitarian Jerry Bielfield DAVID SACHS Copy Editor J erome Bielfield, a Ford dealer for 40 years, was a pillar in the Jewish community, helping cre- ate Jewish hospice in Detroit. Rabbi E.B. "Bunny" Freedman of the Jewish Hospice and Chaplaincy Network in Southfield, praised Mr. Bielfield, whose substantial gift endowed the network and established Jewish hos- pice as a reality. Besides providing funding, Mr. Bielfield regularly visited hospice patients and befriended their families. "Jerry didn't just give charity — he lived charity" said Rabbi Freedman. Mr. Bielfield, 88, of Bloomfield Hills, died of cancer Feb. 18. To Mr. Bielfield, community involve- ment was never an afterthought. Following in his family's footsteps, he had been a contributor and fund-raiser for Federation since 1934. "Jerry was one of the most caring and kind people I've ever met," said Allan Gelfond of the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. "His interest in hospice, Hebrew Free Loan and the House of Shelter is all the same thing — it's Jerry's caring." After graduating from the University of Michigan in 1934, Mr. Bielfield vol- unteered as mentor to the Titans, a club of 19 teen-age boys at the Jewish Center on Woodward and Holbrook in Detroit. "He was a father figure to every- body," said Rose Kaluzny of Southfield, whose late husband, Shy, was a Titan. "Jerry was a humanitarian — he loved people." Members ultimately fought in World War II, got married and raised families — and kept in close touch with Mr. Bielfield throughout the years. Mr. Bielfield served in counterintelli- gence during the war and worked in his father's Firestone tire store before open- ing the Ford dealership with his brother Bud. Established in 1949, Jerry Bielfield Ford at Lonyo and Michigan in south- west Detroit was the first Jewish-owned Ford dealership, said Jerry Jorgensen, who bought the business from Mr. Bielfield in 1989. Mr. Bielfield was active in the auto- mobile trade, serving on the boards of directors of the national, state and local dealer associations. He co-founded the Charity Preview at the annual Detroit Auto show, which has raised millions for good causes over three decades. But his most unique accomplishment in the Jewish community was the estab- lishment of the Jerry and Eileen Bielfield Fund for Jewish Hospice. When Mr. Bielfield sold his business 12 years ago, he was looking for a new project to direct his energies. Executive directors Robert Aronson of Federation and Alan Goodman, then of Jewish Family Service, told him of the need to establish a local Jewish hospice. Mr. Bielfield took it from there. "He understood the various needs of hospice exceptionally well and really got into it," said Rabbi Freedman. "He was able to create Jewish Hospice, nurture it, see its flowering and then benefit from it [during his illness]. That's a complete cycle." In addition, Mr. Bielfield, along with the late Milton Shiffman and the late David Hermelin, helped bring hospice to Israel's Central Galilee region, funding the Milton and Lois Shill-man Home Hospice of the Valleys. Mr. Bielfield also aided Hospice of Michigan. "Jerry was, in his own very quiet way, completely devoted to this Jewish com- munity and in particular, to the people among us who did not have a voice and could not help themselves," Aronson said. Mr. Bielfield is survived by his wife of 46 years, Eileen; stepson Julius Byron "Bud" Kahn; granddaughter and hus- band Melissa Jensen and Chris Williams; and great-grandson Aidan Williams. Interment was at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Jerry and Eileen Bielfield Fund at the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit, 6735 Telegraph Road, P.O. Box 2030, Bloomfield Hills, MI 48303-2030 or the Jewish Hospice and Chaplaincy Network, 24123 Greenfield Road, Southfield, MI 48075. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑