ILATICE The December Dilemma D ovetailing with the philos- ophy of The Half-Jewish Book: A Celebration is the Dovetail Institute for Interfaith Family Resources, a nonprofit, national organization that explores all aspects of Judaism and Christianity that dovetail together. With the celebrations of Chanukah and Christmas approaching, this is definitely the group's "busy season." The October/November issue of its magazine, Dovetail: A agenda, and we push no one approach to interfaith marriage. We provide the couples, their fam- ilies and friends with nonjudg- mental educational and network- ing venues and opportunities." The current issue of the maga- zine offers a catalog of greeting cards combining Chanukah and Christmas motifs, and a commen- tary from a Christian minister who prefers a complete separation between the two holidays. Journal by and for Jewish/Christian Families, offers suggestions and . insights to anyone in or from dual-faith families on getting the most out of the holiday season. That includes everything from Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur to the start of the secular New Year. Realizing the need for "something with a nonde- nominational agenda," a small group of people involved in half-Jewish fami- Intermarried journalists Steve and Cokie lies organized the Dovetail Roberts gave the keynote speech at the 1998 Institute in 1992, spearhead- conference of the Dovetail Institute for ed by Joan Hawxhurst, a Interfaith Family Resources. Methodist woman newly married to a Jew. The bimonthly magazine, with The institute, based in Boston, 1,000 subscribers, is $25 a year, Ky., a Louisville suburb, is housed and is published in Kalamazoo, in the home of its current execu- Mich., with 11 rabbis and ministers tive director, Mary Rosenbaum, serving on its board of advisers. who is Catholic. Others on the "This issue really emphasizes board of directors are her husband Chanukah and Christmas because of 37 years, Dr. S.N. Rosenbaum, they are both celebrations of liber- professor emeritus in Judaic ation," said Rosenbaum. The insti- Studies at the University of Don't Light the tute's pamphlet, Kentucky; Hawxhurst, now presi- Menorah So Close to the Christmas dent of Dovetail Publishing; and Tree, can be read on the group's Rabbi Allen Secher of Chicago, web site at www.dovetailpublish- owner of the Good Co., which ing.com , or is available by calling publishes certificates for weddings, 1-800-530-1596. Also excerpted baby-namings, and other Jewish on the Web site is an entertaining rituals. take on the "December dilemma" "The Dovetail Institute respects Gary Magenta. Titled by humorist the right and need of Jewish and Leave a Plate of Matzoh for Santa, Christian partners to explore the it describes how he grew up in an spiritual and religious dimensions Italian/Jewish household. II of an interfaith household," said Ms. Rosenbaum. "We have no — Bill Carroll PARTY! Just Like Bubbe Used To Make! Yi Place your take home r Dine In LATKE PARTY .,, kt.,•=mm , .1. % ,„ ■ .. . .T.. .. • 4* 4 I • ■ join the Party!. V IP. ,41 4 • FP•1 (ir ,eiS ' dr MAP1,05.# Dec. 6 - Dec. 31, 2000 Performances Wed. 2 p.m. & '7:30 p,m„ Thur. 7:30 p.m.Sat. 8 p.m.. Sun. 7:30 p.m. In The Aaron DeRoy Theatre (Wed. Dec. 27 matineee only) If you knew you were giving birth to a gay child, what would you do? Laugh and cry with the Golds and the choice they will make. Sponsored by: JN 11SCO Thins For ticket information call 2 4 8 - 7 8 8- 2 9 0 0 fax: 248-788-5160 ,Nwv Maple Road • West Bloomfield REMBRANDT IS AT MARVIN'S TO SKETCH YOUR PICTURE! 4 Quarters Free! With ThLs Ad pfi Mon.-Sat. 10-11 Sun 11-11 S ARTEL0e8 ORAL PIMP* 4/k 4 3 100S ORCHARD LAKE RD. IP BEHIND F&M, SOUTH OF 14 MILE • 626-5020 I Coupon Per Person Free quarters for use only on games at Marvin's Expires 12/14/00 12/S 2000 87