So, which well-known people are "halfJewish'? You may be surprised to learn about the following: Actress Sarah Jessica Parker and actor Matthew Broderick (both half-Jewish/half-WASP), married to each other. Their wedding took place in a dilapidated Lower East Side New York synagogue. His sis- ter, an Episcopal minister, officiated. Authors Daniel Klein, right, and Freke Vuijst, left, with their "half-Jewish" daughter, Samara. back to Holland each night, said she has not experienced such resentment in the small western Massachusetts burg where the authors, married 24 years, now reside. Vuijst grew up in Holland, where she earned a college degree in journalism; her father was a minister. Klein was raised in Delaware and New Jersey; his father was a chemist for DuPont. The family was not very religious, but Klein, who majored in philosophy at Harvard, had a bar mitzvah. "When Daniel came to Holland to ask my father for my hand in marriage," Vuijst recalled, "my father was interested in his Judaic roots and asked him to read something in Hebrew, but he couldn't. My father married us using a liturgy in Dutch, Hebrew and English." A Different Sensibility In The Half-Jewish Book, Vuijst and Klein explore what it means to be half- Jewish, opposing those who insist: "You are either Jewish or you are not." "We feel a person is half-Jewish if one of his or her parents is ethnically Jewish and one is not. It doesn't matter which parent is Jewish and which parent is not. And it doesn't matter if the Jewish par- ent is observant or not," write the authors. "It doesn't even matter if the non- Jewish parent converted to Judaism upon marriage. It also doesn't matter in which — if any — religion the person was brought up, or which religion he or she has chosen to follow. In other words, a person is half-Jewish if half of his genetic/cultural makeup is Jewish and half it not. That's it." The authors suggest there is some- thing unique and remarkable about the half-Jewish mind and the half-Jewish face — in the art and wit created by half-Jewish sensibilities, and in the ethi- cal, literary and political ideas produced from the half-Jewish perspective. There is a kindred spirit half-Jews share, explain the authors. A sort of unofficial network of bonding based on shared injustices and cultural ambiva- lence. "One thing that all [the intervie- wees] spoke about was a heightened sense of duality," said Klein. That, say the authors, leads to half-Jews being more tolerant of other cultures and points of view." Yet, Klein believes, many "half-Jews are more likely to get a Jewish education than those with two Jewish parents," who might take their Judaism for grant- ed. Klein and Viujst have pretty much followed the tenets of Judaism in raising their daughter, Samara, giving her a complete religious education, including Hebrew school and a bat mitzvah. (Although they define her as half-Jewish, she could be considered, according to Reform Judaism, a full Jew.) "We felt it was important for her to have a strong ethnic identity, going to the synagogue regularly, participating in seders and other Jewish traditions and visiting Israel," said Viujst. "We live in a Actor Daniel Day-Lewis (half- Lithuanian Jewish/half-Irish Protestant) and actress/film director Rebecca Miller (half-American Jewish/half-German Protestant), married to each other. She's the daughter of Jewish playwright Arthur Miller. Writer J.D. Salinger (half- Jewish/half-Scots Irish). He carried on an affair with the much younger writer Joyce Maynard (half- Jewish/half-WASP). Actress Gwyneth Paltrow (half- Jewish/half-Scots Irish German). Daughter of actress Blythe Danner and producer Bruce Paltrow, Gwyneth is the descendant of a dynasty of renowned Russian-Jewish rabbis going back to the 17th cen- tury on her father's side. Actress Paulette Goddard (half- Jewish/half-French Catholic). One of the top beauties of 1930s Hollywood, she was denied the part of Scarlett O'Hara in Gone With the Wind by producer David Selznick because he didn't want a Jew in the role. " Actor Paul Newman (half-German Jewish/half-Hungarian Catholic). Although non-religious, he consid- ers himself "just plain Jewish because it is more challenging." Actor Michael Douglas (half- Jewish/half-WASP). His father, actor Kirk Douglas, said: "Michael is very Jewish — he feels as a Jew." Actor Michael Landon (half- Jewish/half-Irish Catholic). Sent by his mother to a Catholic school, he was taunted by schoolmates whom, he said, "touched my head to see if I had horns." Actress Goldie Hawn (half- Jewish/half-northern European). With a Jewish mother, she always identifies herself as a Jew. Actor Harrison Ford (half-Russian Jewish/half-Irish Catholic). This son of a Jewish mother is always named as one of the sexiest leading men in Hollywood. Actor David Ducliovny (half- Russian Jewish/half-Scots Presbyterian). Star of TV's The X- Files, he describes his parents' match as "the Highlands meets Coney Island." Tennis player Boris Becker (half Czech Jewish/half-German Catholic). He says he identifies strongly with both sides of his her- itage. "My mother was interned in a concentration camp during World War II." New York Mayor Fiorello La Guardia (half-Italian Jewish/half- Italian Catholic). The "Little Flower" spoke Yiddish and was in the forefront of Americans who publicized and protested the suffer- ing of European Jewry under Nazism. Sen. Diane Feinstein (half-Polish Jewish/half-Russian Orthodox). As part of a double life, the California Democrat attended Convent of the Sacred Heart High School during the week and went to Sunday school at Temple Emanu-El on weekends. U.S. Secretary of Defense William Cohen (half-Jewish/half-Protestant). He was told at age 13 by a rabbi that he was ineligible for a bar mitz- vah because his mother wasn't Jewish -- and that either she would have to convert or he would have to be circumcised. Infuriated and frightened, he announced he no longer considered himself a Jew — and he has stuck to his word. He subsequently married an African- American TV talk-show host. — From "The Half-Jewish Book: A Celebration." 12/8 2000 85