SPECIAL COMMENTARY The Limits Of Words Words significantly shape the way we New York think, but they also constrain our have been struggling recently imagination. I would love to find a with the word Jewish. The word way to talk about Jewishness that has begun to feel constraining would mirror what that identity and narrow. And I don't believe evokes. that I am an unusual case; this is Maybe this brief look at the words something I share with my "secular" we currently use will help. friends and colleagues who are not "Religion" is clearly associated with traditional inadequate. Associated, as it Jewish practices and institu- is, with the notion of a tions. transcendent God, and Maybe one reason that the with rigid norms and rules, word Jewish can feel distanc- it simply does not describe ing is that none of the terms my sense of connection to that are ordinarily used to something larger or to the describe Jewishness — "reli- deepest parts of myself. Nor gion," "ethnicity," "heritage," does the term resonate with "ethics" — quite resonate in an entire generation of spite of my deep Jewish con- DR. SHARI Americans who prefer the nection. COHEN word "spiritual" instead. I think this is true for two Special to But "spirituality" does reasons: Jewishness has always the Jewish News not work either. It suggests been some sort of composite an inward self-focus, not of these concepts, though we sufficiently oriented toward tend to want to label it sim- the larger world — a sense of ethics ply — to place it in only one of these and the larger good. It has also come boxes. to overlap with "New Age," a term to Perhaps more importantly, we are which I have never been drawn. in a period of change, when we might have to think differently about the Making The Connection categories to which these words refer. Again, I know I am not alone in this. Dr. Shari Cohen is a senior fellow Neither "religion" nor "spirituality" and director of the Jewish Public Forum captures how I, or many of the "secu- at CLAL, the National Jewish Center lar" Jews I know, would describe our for Learning and Leadership. connection to the big issues of life, or I LETTERS LETTERS Woodville, Ohio Israel Needs Our Support I want to thank you for the incredi- ble coverage you gave to the United Jewish Communities' Solidarity Mis- sion to Israel that Michael Horowitz and I went on together ("Showing 40 fixed, "morality" is associated with the Christian right. "Social activism" is too connected to social move- ments that have not been terribly effective. I would prefer a term that captures a deep commitment to questioning conventions, the notion of making the world better from tikkun olam, but also the need to ground idealism in the realities of the world. None of the terms we often hear do this. ty with the people of Israel. I promise all of you an experience you will never forget nor regret. It is so easy to go to Israel during the good times. It is the hard decision to go during the tough times. Marta Rosenthal What Jewish Means Perhaps Jewish is as much a "method" for engaging with the world as it is anything else. This means thinking in terms of adverbs and verbs, not nouns. Maybe I'd feel better if Jewish was a word that referred to how we "believe," "identify," have "faith," appreciate the "sacred," "reflect," are "loyal," "engage," find or seek "mean- ing" and challenge "idolatries." And not just how we do each of these things, but how these activities are and will be combined. It makes sense to move in this direction during a transitional period, when the ways we form communities, our own identities, think about our families, our work and politics are changing. Once we become conscious — or self-conscious — about words, we can be freed to reinvent. ❑ from page 37 not, the Jewish people have always considered all gossip as loshon horah: evil and reprehensible. The inclusion of this book review in your newspaper is totally contrary to your mission statement, "We acknowledge our role as a responsible, responsive member of the (Jewish) community." The book, as well as its review, were tasteless and inappropriate. David Temple 11/24 2000 to our Jewish identities. What about "ethnicity" and the whole family of words connected with the tribal aspect of Jewish peoplehood, oriented toward kinship and toward inheritance of something from the past? "Ethnicity" and "peoplehood" feel too tribal, particularistic and focused on survival. "Heritage" seems too bland, and doesn't do justice to the richness of Jewish tradition; it is also strangely static. "Culture" might work, but seems too broad and diffuse and often focused on nostalgia. There is another family of terms that links to the notion of tikkun oldm — a phrase that has come to mean, roughly, making the world a better place. This impulse, combined with the idea of questioning conventions or idolatries, comprises the aspect of Jew- ishness that focuses on "social respon- sibility." But what do we really mean by that? Social responsibility might suggest the concept of "civic engage- ment," which has been used in recent discussions about the malaise and apa- thy that seem to be threatening democracy. But "civic engagement" is reminiscent of forms of voluntary activity that I connect with a previous generation, and doesn't describe my engagement with important social challenges. "Ethics" sounds too distant and We Care," Nov. 17, page 6). When the Jewish Federation of Metropoli- tan Detroit called and asked me to go, it never occurred to me to say "no." My only thought was, "Is my passport still valid?" This was a very different kind of mission to Israel for me and no doubt my most important mission. Israel needs us. They need our emotional support most of all. Now I am asking you, the Michi- gan Jewish community, to join Detroit Federation President Penny Blumenstein, Unity Mission Chair- man Richard Krugel and me, associ- ate chair, on our own Michigan Unity Mission to Israel, Jan. 14-19. You will go directly from Detroit to Tel Aviv on El Al Airlines. This is an opportunity for members of the Jewish communities from across the state to show unwavering solidari- Franklin Write Us! The Jewish News welcomes letters on topics of interest to the Jewish community. We give preference for publication to letters that relate to articles in the Jewish News. We reserve the right to edit or reject letters. They should be limited to approximately 250 words. Deadline for consideration is 5 p.m. Monday for Friday's edition. 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