leting The Circle T. s. • • -' The future Friendship Circle Ferber-Kaufman Life Town Center Friendship Circle plans call for construction of an all-inclusive facility for children with special needs. SHELLI LIEBMAN DORFMAN Staff Writer T o those who think dreams are money, vacations and power, Shari Kaufman offers a defiant correction: "A dream can be as simple as an out- stretched hand, a caring smile, a friend and a safe place to go to feel good." With deep-felt determination, Kaufman and other supporters of the Friendship Circle are about to turn their dream into a 20,000- square-foot, multi-staffed reality — Related editorial: page 37 11/24 2000 10 a learning and therapy center dedi- cated to the care and nurturing of metro Detroit's children with special needs. "People look at children with spe- cial needs and say, look at what they can't do,"' says Kaufman. "We look, and say: 'Look at what these beautiful children can do and how much they are able to share, and how much they change who we are by who they are.'" Five years ago, Rabbi Levi and Bassie Shemtov of West Bloomfield began the Friendship Circle as a shoestring program to match teen volunteers with children having spe- cial needs. The number of lives affected by _ the one-on-one sessions in individ- ual homes and weekly programming has exceeded what the Shemtovs ever envisioned. Now, more than 300 young volunteers have established ongoing relationships with children involved in the Friendship Circle. "There is a real need for a central location that can serve as a commu- nity center for children with special needs and their families," Rabbi Shemtov says. The new facility will be "a place where the children feel wanted and loved while their parents relax — where they will be able to feel as comfortable as they do in their own back yards."