Detroit's Original Discounter LEVIN'S BEAUTY SUPPLY LOOK GOOD: Mutual Interests • Professional Hair & Nail Supplies • Custom Cosmetics • Tanning & Skin Care iv SMELL GREAT: 7,2 Reform, Orthodox and Conservative women share a neighborly evening of talk, food and fun. Discount Designer Fragrances - The Newest, the Classics 4 the hard to find favorites FEEL SENSATIONAL: Bath and Body Oils, Shower Gels, Powders & Cremes AND SAVE: SHARON LUCKER/VIAN Selections and prices that all others strive to duplicate. Editorial Assistant III I ffy women, young and old, sit in rapt attention as three panelists briefly, yet pro- foundly, discuss how parents can impart Jewish values to their teenagers. The audience bursts into laughter when a speaker shares this important lesson: "Be fair, embrace good — and get over yourself." Murmurs of agreement follow as she declares her favorite time is the Shabbat meal with the whole family. But the emotion in the room is palpable when the last speaker, voice shaking, tells what she learned from her daughter: Don't be judgmental. Her words reverberate around the room. The women are taking part in "A Woman's Night Out," a tri-synagogue dinner sponsored for the third year by Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit's Neighborhood Project. The evening's purpose is to bring together Jewish women of different streams who belong to congregations in the same community served by the Neighborhood Project. The Federation program seeks to build community as it offers interest-free loans to Jewish home- buyers in Oak Park and Southfield. Participants on Oct. 25 at the Jewish Community Center in Oak Park are members of neighboring synagogues Congregation Beth Shalom (Conservative), Temple Emanu-El (Reform) and Young Israel of Oak Park (Orthodox). "It's marvelous meeting people in the neighborhood and broadening one's point of view," said Raiselle Snow of Young Israel. With the string of Jewish holidays just concluded, she said, "After yom tov, I want to come out and enjoy myself." "I enjoy the heimishness," added Shirley Kramer of Beth Shalom, refer- ring to the warm tone of the gathering. Dressed in everything from suits to jeans, the women are assigned to festive- ly decorated tables, meeting members from each synagogue. The conversation- al topics range from the popular NBC- WEST BLOOMFIELD OAK PARK 851-7323 547-9669 Orchard Lake Rd. in the West Bloomfield Plaza 24695 Coolidge at 10 Mile Rd. OPEN M-SAT. 9-6 • THURS. TIL 7 P.M. TV show West Wing to the upcoming elections. "Our intent is to bring Jewish women together by what we share, not what sepa- rates us," said Marion Freedman, director of Federation's Neighborhood Project. She and committee members from each synagogue prepare three to four months ahead for this event. As women who share a neighborhood, she said, "We are bridge builders." Getting Together Overhearing the conversation with Freedman, Judith Greenwald of Temple Emanu-El said, "The Neighborhood Project makes the community stronger. And I get to see wonderful women I don't otherwise have a chance to see." Agreeing is her mother, Lillian Greenwald, also of the temple. Pleasantly surprised at this event last year, she said she'd been looked forward to a repeat performance. After dinner, the panelists present their thoughts on imparting Jewish val- ues to children. The speakers from the three streams of Judaism include Barbara Klein (Reform), Mintzi Schramm (Orthodox) and Sheyna Wexelberg- Clouser (Conservative). The program ends on a fun note with a presentation on festive table set- tings by Donna Rosen of Morels restau- rant of Bingham Farms. Rochelle Imber's Knit, Judith Greenwald and her mother Lillian Greenwald, both of Temple Emanu-El, enjoy the meal and con- versation at the Tri-Synagogue dinner. Panelists Barbara Klein, Temple Emanu-El; Sheyna Wexelberg-Clouser, Beth Shalom; and Mintzi Schramm, Young Israel of Oak Park, discuss "Jewish Values We Hope to Impart to Our Children." The speakers elicit laughter and reflection at 'A Woman's Night Out," sponsored by Federation's Neighborhood Project. Shown are, front left, Shirley Kramer of Beth Shalom, Marsha Leibson of Temple Emanu-El and, at right, presenter Donna Rosen of Morels. Inter-congregational programs like this, said committee member Debra Silver of Temple Emanu-El, are impor- tant in unifying the Jewish community. With the success of 'A Woman's Night Out," the committee now is con- sidering planning a tri-synagogue event for couples. ❑ ACCENTS IN NEEDLEPOINT Contemporary Designs 626-3042 IN THE ORCHARD MALL WEST BLOOMFIELD 11•1111•111•11 ■ 111111.11.11/m11 Give the Gift of Portraits this Holiday COMPLIMENTARY PORTRAIT SITTING EXPIRES 12-22-00 CLASSIC PHOTOGRAPHY IN APPLEGATE 350-2420 Gift Certificates are available for any $ amount syw s- 11/1: 2000 75