Torah Portion Were Our Choices Good, Or Can We Do Better? rain behavior when the child is too young to consider his or her actions with maturity and forethought. As the child becomes an adult, however, parental threats cease to instill fear. As we grow up, moral persuasion and appeals to one's better nature become more powerful motivators for proper his week's Parsha (Torah behavior than intimidation. portion) serves as an impor- Like the grown child, we live in tant reminder of the an age when belief in God is option- covenant our ancestors al; when science and technology made with God: promise to answer all our questions, "The Lord your God commands you and fear of humanity's own destruc- this day to observe these laws and rules; tive power is more impos- observe them faithfully with all ing than fear of God. your heart and soul. You have We perceive ourselves as affirmed this day that the Lord equal partners in this con- is your God, that you will tract with God — we don't walk in God's ways, that you have to observe or believe, will observe God's laws and yet many of us choose to, commandments and rules, and nonetheless. We don't do that you will obey God. And so out of fear, but rather the Lord has affirmed this day out of love and gratitude that you are God's treasured for the gift of creation. For people which shall observe all some, keeping the RAB BI MARLA the commandments, and that covenant is born of the J. FE LDMAN God will set you high above all hope that one day the con- Spe cial to the the nations; and that you shall tract will be complete, and Jew ish News be, as promised, a holy people we will have earned the to the Lord your God" promised blessings. (Deuteronomy 26: 16-19). Just as the role of our parents This is a simple contract between changes during the course of our lives, our people and God. We agree to so too, our relationship with God observe the commandments and evolves. During the upcoming Holy affirm God. In turn, God promises Days, we will recite the traditional that we will be "Am Segula" — a trea- `Avinu Malkeinu" — Our Father, Our sured people. If we fulfill our part of King. Our ancestors portrayed God as the covenant, then we will receive both a loving parent and an omnipo- wondrous blessings from God. tent ruler. In this day and age, God is On the other hand, if we fail in our a choice. commitment to God, we will face ter- The ancient covenant established rifying calamities. The horrific litany between our ancestors and God of curses cited in the parsha is so defines the Jewish people. Our part of frightening that it became customary the agreement is to obey the corn- to read the passage in a low voice, for mandments and affirm God. Whether fear that reciting the curses aloud or not we uphold our part of the con- might invite their fulfillment. The tract is up to us. twin themes of blessings and curses run through this parsha, with the warning that our actions will deter- mine which of these will come to pass. Reward and punishment are the During the month of Elul, as the mechanisms God uses to compel our High Holy Days approach, we are ancestors' obedience. It more closely told to devote our thoughts to resembles the relationship between a reviewing the year that has past parent and a child than that between and setting our sights on the year equal partners in a contract. ahead. In keeping with this tradi- The problem with this paradigm is tion, let us each ask ourselves: Did obvious. A parent often uses a "carrot I uphold my part of the contract and stick" approach to encourage cer- with God? Was I a trustworthy Shabbat Ki Tavo: Deuteronomy 26:1-29:8; Isaiah 60:1-22. T ❑ Conversations Marla Feldman is the assistant direc- tor of the Jewish Community Council of Metropolitan Detroit and the exec- utive director of the Michigan Board of Rabbis. partner in the covenant between the people of Israel and God? Have I made good choices during the past year, or can I do better? Just the Ri9lit Size! Congregation B'nai Moshe is small enough to be your family, yet large enough to meet your needs. In fact, it will exceed your expectations. Adhering to the principles of Conservative Judaism, B'nai Moshe offers a friendly, participatory Shabbat morning service and a daily minyan, along with unique educational and social programs for the whole family. Congregation D' fidi /"lobe 6800 Drake Road, West Bloomfield, 248-788-0600 CALL ABOUT OUR NEW MEMBER "2 FOR 1" AND "1/2 PRICE"" SPECIALS. Twol=gaik To all my wonderful family and friends for all your cards, gifts and support during my recent surgery. BEA COHAN 9/1