The Major SHABBAT The Sabbath The weekly Shabbat observance begins at sundown each Friday evening with the lighting of candles at home and a synagogue service called Kabbalat Shabbat. Friday night observances at home often include a festive dinner that begins by reciting the Kiddush, the prayer over wine, and HaMotzi, the prayer over chat- la (egg bread). Saturday observances for Shabbat include services, a festive lunch- eon and an afternoon of rest. A light third meal, called seuda shilishit (pro- nounced "sooda shillysheet"), also is tra- ditional. Shabbat concludes on Saturday night with the Havdala (separation) ceremony. Spices, a special braided candle and wine are used in this Sabbath closing ceremo- ny. ROSH CHODESH First Day Of The New Month Rosh Chodesh means "head of the month." It is noted by reciting special prayers during the regular Shabbat serv- ices, including Hallel, a series of psalms. Tradition tells us that because women did not participate in the sin of the Golden Calf in the wilderness, they were given Rosh Chodesh as a gift. For this rea- son, women's study sessions and prayer groups often meet on Rosh Chodesh. ROSH HASHANA Jewish New Year Rosh HaShana (Tishrei 1 -2) begins a 10- day period of repentance that lasts through Yom Kippur. The shofar, usually a ram's horn, is blown during services. Home observanc- es include festive meals with traditional foods, such as a round loaf of challa and apples dipped in honey, symbolizing wholeness and sweetness for the new year. New Year's greeting cards often are sent to friends and family. On the first day of Rosh HaShana, it is traditional to drop breadcrumbs into a river or pond as symbols of "casting away our sins." This ceremony is called tashlich. TZOM GEDALIAH Fast of Gedaliah This minor fast day (Tishrei 3) recalls the slaying of Gedaliah, who the Babylonians appointed governor of Judah after they captured Jerusalem in 586 B.C.E. He and his aides were killed by another Jew, Ishmael Nethaniah, who sought disunity and disruption. Some see this holiday as a paradigm for the Jewish community today, when it is often marked by strife and disunity within. YOM KIPPUR Day Of Atonement The most solemn day of the year (Tishrei 10), Yom Kippur concludes the High Holy Days. Yom Kippur is marked by fasting, prayer and teshuva (repentance) as Jews reflect on their relationships with other people and with God. Prior to sunset on the evening before Yom Kippur, families eat a pre-fasting meal, candles are lit and everyone goes 26 • SOURCEBOOK 2000 • JN