The Judaism Of Celebration Our heritage calls for rejoicing whenever possible. mil udaism is all about knowing how to celebrate! But too many of us missed that point when we learned about the laws and legends of the Jews. Most of us take ourselves too seriously. Our entire faith and future is not about how heavy we can make our practices but how wonderful believing in our religion and our culture really can be. From the earliest days of life, Jews are supposed to be taught how to celebrate. Celebrations are our memory-triggers through life. Jews have been through so much as a people, it is only right that we celebrate not just our successes and our struggles but our very survival. Shabbat candles, the wine, the Kiddush cup, the braided challa, even the white tablecloth and traditional chicken dinner symbolize the celebration of rest and Yi ddishkeit (Judaism) that remind us not just about the best day of the week but of times gone by and times yet to be. Every holiday and any holy day involve a string of customs and traditions that can be reminders of our childhood and become links to and for the generations to come. Celebration is what being the Jewish people is all about. It is about the joy of being alive, the joy of knowing how to live and, most of all, it is about the joy that Judaism can be. Celebrations are supposed to remind us that we Jews love our Judaism not because we necessarily accept all of its postulates or positions, not because we agree with every mitzvah, but because it is ours. The celebration of a holy event, a life-cycle Rabbi Dannel I. happening, a holiday, or Schwartz even a meal, constantly serves to tell us that Jewish life is about community, and celebration is the way we learn how to view and live life with the people who mean the most to us. The world as we know it doesn't give us enough opportunities to celebrate. We are too busy working or escaping or working to escape. There is an old saying that goes, "The work will wait for you to show your child the rainbow... the rainbow won't wait for the work to get done." After all is said and done, the very essence of Judaism is centered around the celebration that we can find in life, if we take the time to just do it. Judaism is about celebrating, belonging; it is about celebrating community and celebrating a relationship with an extended family. In the end though, if a celebration really hits home, it is celebrating our uniqueness and our relationship with God. PARTY NEEDS a et Hall Andiamo West 6676 Telegraph Road Bloomfield Twp., MI 48301 (248) 865-9300 One of a six-restaurant group: Andiamo Italia, Andiamo Lakefront Bistro, Andiamo Trattoria, Andiamo West, Andiamo Osteria of Royal Oak and Andiamo Osteria of Rochester. Italian favorites featured. Butzel Conference Center 3599 Perryville Road Ortonville, MI 48462 (248) 627-3200 (248) 647-1100 city office Fax: (248) 647-1493 Email: tamarack@ix.network.com Contact Person: Rick Goren Offers kosher meals in conference center and three cottages, each with eight rooms for overnight rental. Programs include family camps, Bubbie and Zayde weekend retreats, corporate retreats and bar/bat mitzvah parties. Groups may use the ropes course and other Tamarack Camp activities. DoubleTree Hotel 2700 Sheraton Drive Novi, MI 48377 (248) 348-5000 (800) 713-3513 Elegant ballroom for all occasions. Spacious three- story atrium ideal for cocktail receptions. Complete catering services and professional staff. Full- service hotel featuring 217 luxurious guest rooms and suites. Catere,., Bloom's Kitchen Rabbi Dannel I. Schwartz is a spiritual leader of Temple Shir Shalom in West Bloomfield. 32418 Northwestern Hwy. Farmington Hills, MI 48334 (248)855-9463 Fax: (248) 626-8468 Email: shirleebloom@hotmail.com JN • SOURCEBOOK 2000 • 87