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The program is underwritten by a three-year grant from the Jewish Fund, created to support community projects by the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit out of proceeds from the sale of Sinai Hospital. Now in its second year, enrollment in the Special Needs Day Camp Inclusion Program has doubled since 1999, with a waiting list of 20 children that could- n't be accommodated this summer. "These counselors make the pro- gram run," Furgang says. "The kids are so devoted and committed to these campers." Furgang cites many significant changes that have come about in campers throughout this summer. "Some swam for the first time," she says. "A non-verbal child spoke his counselor's name, while a speech- delayed child spontaneously put three words together." Schwartz sees her inclusion with Lauren as a way that helped Lauren to become more social. "If the other kids see her playing with me, they would see it's OK to play with her," she says. Schwartz found that as the summer went on, she was able to stand back as Lauren made her way to other kids. "Lauren learns so much from imita- tion and the more she is around regu- lar kids, the more she learns from them," says her mother, Valerie Ettinger of Farmington Hills. "The whole program is designed toward inclusion," Schwartz says. "From the beginning to the end of the day, we are together. I was there to help Lauren keep up with the group." Schwartz views the camp's special- needs counselors as the only way some of the kids could have been able to attend camp. "Some of the kids are slower or have trouble understanding. The bunk counselors can't always wait for one child — or chase a child who may run. If they don't understand an activity, we are there to facilitate." Ettinger says Lauren attended the JCC camp for one year before the spe- cial-needs program was introduced. The inclusion of a special-needs counselor for her daughter has meant a great deal to Lauren. Last summer, "if there was an activity she couldn't do — like she can't play baseball — she would have sat around and watched," Ettinger says, but now "Julie [Schwartz] could take her some- place else and maybe play catch." Lauren doesn't read or write, so Schwartz adapted some activities. She turned a word-search game into one where Lauren could find the letters of her name, which she does recognize. "But she can color by herself and she loves to," Schwartz says. Lauren also likes to shop, which is what she and Schwartz spent most of their post- camp afternoon together doing. "After I saw her room and her toys, she wanted to go to the mall," Schwartz says. "So we went to Twelve Oaks; to the Disney Store and the Warner Brothers Store — and she loves Natural Wonders." Being a special-needs counselor is an intense way to spend a summer, with not much of a break "from the moment the buses arrive at 9 until the time the campers go home at 3:30," Furgang says. "Some of the kids have communi- cation difficulties. The environment is so demanding. So much is going on. It's not a controlled setting. A million distractions impinge on these kids' sensory systems." Together Yet Apart A vital part of the camp is that all of the kids do the same things together. "The first day Lauren was introduced as part of the bunk," Schwartz says. "If she were introduced as a special- needs camper, it would set her apart from the other kids right away." "The strength of the counselors is that you can't tell which are the spe- cial-needs campers," Furgang says. Parents who send their children to the camp have basic hopes. "They're not looking for athletes; for their kids to do back flips. They just want them to be with other kids," Furgang adds. The special-needs counselors report to Furgang, who is with the kids daily, and two unit heads meets weekly on issues and problem-solving. "We look at this as a learning experi- ence for the counselors, too," Furgang says. "They learn as much about them- selves as about the campers." Studying psychology and political science, Freilich found after this sum- mer, "I became really interested in learning about autism." She found it inspiring, watching her young camper go through many changes and interacting with other kids. "It's such a great feeling," she says. "He's amazing. Everything he does every day surprises me." Yet, she admits, "It's exhausting — frustrating at times, learning how much space to give — like with any other kid." For Schwartz, too, the summer brought changes in her future plans. "I knew I wanted to be a social work- er, but now I definitely want to work more with special-needs kids," she says. "I feel really passionate about it. It's so rewarding. I love it." When Schwartz left Lauren's home last week, they parted with tears and the knowledge that they both gave and they both received. Looking for- ward to watching Lauren participate next month in track and relays at the West Bloomfield Comunity Fame Games — a special Olympics program for Jewish kids — Schwartz reflects on this "social, loving person, who taught me a lot about myself." From Lauren, Schwartz has learned "that it doesn't matter what you know or what you accomplish — what's important is who you are." ❑ Doctors, Students Plan A Picnic Jewish doctors and medical students, ages 21-35, and their guests are invited to a barbecue 1-4 p.m. Sunday, Sept. 10, at the Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit's JPM Building in Oak Park. Hosting the activity is the Maimonides Society for Jewish physi- cians, which seeks to strengthen bonds with the Jewish community and Israel through educational, social and charita- ble activities. The Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit's Community Outreach and Education Department sponsors the society. Reservation deadline is Sept. 5. Cost for the lunch is $10 per person. Kosher dietary laws will be observed. To reserve a spot or for information, call Alaine Waldshan, (248) 203-1486.