INSIDE Great Sides For Father's Day . . . . 116 food health the scene Hermelins Cited As Dream Makers . . . 118 sports travel ors A 10-year-old center, staffed by volunteers, resolves disputes more cheaply and quickly than the courts. BILL CARROLL Special to the Jewish News A re you and a neighbor constantly arguing about trees, fences or noise? Are you and your land- lord bickering over items in the rental agreement? Do you feel a local store has deceived you over a purchase? Do you think your employer docked your pay unfairly? Is a rip-roaring battle raging in your family over some petty issue and no one knows how to handle it? There's a way to settle these dis- putes without further animosity, filing lawsuits, incurring expensive legal and court costs, or possibly ending up with unnecessary mental stress and medical fees. Just take the case to the Oakland Mediation Center. OMC provides mediators for situations Left: Nancy Klein fee from each case filed like these, and has talks with volunteer in an Oakland County achieved an 85 percent mediators David court. Created as part of success rate in resolving Rosenthal, left, of the Community Southfield and disputes. The center is Dispute Resolution Act Harvey Burdick of staffed by 75 volunteer by the Michigan Bloomfield Hills. mediators from diverse Legislature in 1988, professions and religious almost every county has and ethnic backgrounds Right: Rosenthal and a mediation center. Burdick work with a — including a number couple to find a solu- of Jewish people. Mutually Satisfactory tion. Known as the "Mediation usually is a Settlement Center when `win/win' solution to a it was formed 10 years ago, the dispute — one party doesn't win OMC now is tucked away in a while the other loses," explained small building behind the Costco Nanci Klein of West Bloomfield. store on Telegraph Road in She became executive director of Bloomfield Hills. There's a branch the OMC last year, after practicing office in Southfield's 46th District law for 13 years. "The goal of Court building because many cases mediation is to have all parties are referred to mediation from arrive at a mutually satisfactory small claims court. agreement. And the probability of The OMC, with a full-time staff settling a dispute to the satisfaction of five, is mainly supported by a $2 of both parties through mediation is much higher than in court." Here's how the process works: Two or more Oakland County resi- dents involved in a dispute meet voluntarily in a private, confiden- tial setting to work out a mutually acceptable solution. They are assist- ed by two neutral mediators. A $20 filing fee is charged to the party initiating a mediation. In complex cases, the cost is slightly higher. At the mediation session, all dis- puting parties have the opportunity to fully describe. the problem and to suggest options to resolve it. The mediators help them agree to a realistic, workable solution. But mediators aren't judges or arbitrators — they don't decide who is right or wrong. When an agreement is reached, the mediators compose a written settlement, signed by everyone. The agreement is a legal contract that can be J.Zk , 6/16 2000 1U