MARGARET MORSE TOURS . No One Does It Better... No One! Israel MAR RET MORSE TOURS . SINCE 1980 A 3 GENERATION FAMILY BUSINESS ing the Shema. I could talk." Coming Home There was no JAGS support organiza- tion in Michigan when Samuel returned — only 15 states have chap- ters. Samuel gathered information._ about JAGS, contacted the New York central office, consulted with Jewish Family Service, and informally spoke with physicians, social workers and psychologists about the need for this support in the metropolitan Detroit Jewish community. Two years ago, Gloria Allum, addictions program director at JFS, started her work at JFS, concentrating on treatment for patients who were chemically dependent. "I saw this huge gap," says Allum. "I was work- ing with a large number of chemically dependent patients as an outpatient therapist but there was no support program for them and their families." People talked about stress, rather than alcohol or cocaine dependency, she says. "No one talked about sub- stance abuse in the Jewish communi- ty,.but people were seeking help and coming to me as patients. It was obvi- ous this area needed a support organi- zation." She heard about JAGS, called New York, and they linked her to Samuel. The local group's first meeting was May 16. Samuel and Allum say recovering addicts and their families can't man- age recovery by themselves; they need support. "Jewish people are used to saying, `We're strong enough, we can do that, we've been through worse,' or We're too smart for that,'" says Mum. "The problem is too many Jewish families use these as excuses to deny there is a prob- lem." Samuel knows JAGS works from personal experience. "I learned that sub- stance abuse is a disease. As a parent, I didn't cause it to happen to my child, and I can't control it for my child. The support group teaches you how to let go of your addict so that you're no longer enabling. JAGS shows me how to take care of myself" Suppo rt Building The strategy for metropolitan Detroit JACS is far-reaching. During the past few months, Samuel and Allum and others have contacted local rabbis and requested their support. This includes recog-. nizing that substance abuse is a problem in the Jewish community and talking about it. It also means having speakers present at syna- gogue functions, for the youth groups and Jewish schools. "Estimates of substance abuse are usually lower for the Jewish population than actually exists," says Maxine Uttal, director of JAGS at the central office in New York. "In the early 1990s, the state of New York took a poll and from that determined that the percentage of substance abuse in the Jewish popu- lation was about the same as in the general population." In the late 1980s, she says, Rutgers University in New Jersey operated a cocaine hotline. Religious affiliation was asked and 18 percent of the respondents indicated they were Jewish. The religious community believes the percentage of their members, who are substance abusers is much smaller, under 4 percent. JACS believes that it is closer to 10 percent. "Those are estimates," says Uttal, "because we have no hard data. We do know, however, that alcohol is the most popular substance, and cocaine the second most popular. Among the older population, addiction to tran quilizers, sedatives and pain pills are common. - "We also know that the greater the denial of the problem, the longer the delay to get into a treatment program, which exacerbates the problem." Samuel believes JACS is unique because of the spirituality it brings with the support. Families connect with one another, explore their Jewish roots and discover resources within Judaism to help their recov- ery program. It achieves this through retreats and support pro- grams, through community out- reach programs and seminars to educate and sensitize Jewish spiritu- al leaders, health professionals and the Jewish community in general. "The program doesn't take the place of AA, but it does supplement it," says Samuel. "The 12 steps are still an inte- gral part of recovery. Addiction is a physical, mental and spiritual disease that can be successfully treated but it needs the community" ❑ 11,1argaret Morse with daughter Wendy and grandchildren II,hchael & Robyn. JOIN OUR AWARD WINNING ALL-INCLUSIVE ISRAEL TOURS! Bar/Bat Mitzvah & Family Tours 16 Days Including 2 Nights in Eilat June 21-July 6 * July 26-Aug. 10 Aug. 9-24 Dec. 20-31 (12days) Celebrant goes totally Free! PRIVATE CUSTOMIZED TOURS AVAILABLE YEAR ROUND COME WITH US TO OTHER DESTINATIONS... 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