Family Time Elizabeth Applebaum AppleTree Editor The Studenbergs of West Bloomfield Almost 30 years have passed since Allan Studen- t berg made his first trip to Israel. But he still remembers why he went, and how he felt being there. It was, he says, important. The state's very exis- ±̀ 4 tence. The knowledge 2 that Jews have a place where they will always -2 be safe, always be wel- come. This was no longer something he sim- ply heard or talked about. Now he knew. Oh — he hasn't for- gotten the chicken coops, either. He traveled with friends, in those long- ecilcing rom The Hea rt The Studenbergs eagerly anticipate son Scott's upcoming trip to Israel. Three local families tell what 7ionism, and the State of Israel, means to them. ago days when everybody thought I you could do almost anything if all you had were a few dollars and a sturdy backpack. Allan says he "talked my way" onto a kibbutz, where he worked a volunteer. "We were in the chicken coops; we rotated irrigation lines; we pruned avocado trees," he says. It was a tough life, but fortunately we weren't there for long." Now Allan, an attorney, and his wife, Sharon, a registered nurse who works with the Bloomfield Hills Schools, have a son, Scott, 17, preparing for a trip to Israel. He will leave on June 22 as part of Detroit's third Teen Mission to Israel. "We got the recommended duffle [bag with the expandable sides, and 5/19 2000 104 "We want him to get we are making list after list of things As Zionists, the Greenbergs carry on a family a feel for the country and tradition. needed for the trip," Sharon says. understand how impor- "We just had a meeting at Temple tant it is," Allan says. "We want him Israel with Rabbi Josh [Bennett], who The Greenbergs of Oak Park to know its significant history. Of gave us packing tips. But we'll proba- It was blind luck that brought Sandra course, he studied it in school, but it's bly still be packing the night before." and Joseph Greenberg together. one thing to read about something, Allan and Sharon, both Detroit He was a native of New York; she another to experience it. And this is natives, met 20 years ago on a rac- was born and raised in Detroit. A even more important because it's quetball court. They married two mutual friend thought they might be Israel. It's hard to even put it in years later at Temple Israel. In addi- perfect together and set them up on a words." tion to Scott, they are the parents of blind date. Allan also looks forward to his son 15-year-old Lauren, and Danielle, 7. Both Sandra and Joey were brought having the opportunity to see Judaism Scott has definite plans about what up in Orthodox homes and had fami- lived in Israel, not just experienced as he wants to do in Israel, the Studen- lies deeply devoted to the State of services or holidays, but as part of the bergs say. He's very interested in Israel and Zionism. ordinary — but extraordinary this is, scuba diving. He can't wait to see the "My parents have always had a after all, a country only decades old) Dead Sea. And visiting the Kotel great love for Israel," said Sandra, — fabric of day-to-day existence. (Western Wall) is a must. who made her first visit to Israel in "I want him to see that Judaism is The Studenbergs are confident he 1972. "I think for my father, a Holo- ! more than a religion," Allan says. "It's will return from the trip with much caust survivor, it also provides great a way of life." more than souvenirs.