Now a Iso Op en... We've landed on Orchard Lake Road • Detroit is yet another example of Detroit's cultural institutions building alliances to offer the best in the world of arts, culture and entertainment for our community." "I was raised Jewish. My mother (actress Anne Meara) is Irish Catholic. We went to synagogue a couple of times a year and then kind of fell off. I've never really gone with anyone — Suzanne Chessler who was Jewish, and I'm getting mar- ried now to a girl who's not." Why this distancing from his religion? "I wasn't brought up in a very reli- Jessye Norman will perform 5 gious setting. In the generation I grew p.m. Saturday, April 29, at the up in, it wasn't as much an issue. I Detroit Opera House. $30-$250. went to Hebrew school from kinder- (248) 737-9980. The afterglow garten to second grade, then I went to reception and dinner begins at an Episcopalian school, St John the 7:30 p.m. at the Charles H. Divine up on 119th Street, till seventh Wright Museum of African grade, and then I went to a private American History $150-$250. open school, so you get exposed to a (313) 494-5854. lot of different influences." Will he be married in a temple or a church? "We're going to have a spiritual `The Rabbis' Response ceremony with a minister who's non- In the film Keeping the Faith (see the denominational and incorporate a article "Love Triangle" in last week's couple of different traditions," Jewish News), actor Ben Stiller plays a replies Stiller. Conservative rabbi whose best friend is And how will they bring up the kids? a Catholic priest (played by Edward "We always had both Norton). When an Irish-Catholic child- Christmas and Chanuka in my hood friend, now a grown-up corporate household. It was executive (played by Jenna always about toys. Elfman), comes back into My birthday was their life, the rabbi is con- about the same flicted about betraying his time, and there were religion when he falls in lots of toys. love with her. ' "I had a talk with But, two years ago, my dad (comedian when asked by this writer Jerry Stiller) yesterday about his Judaism, Stiller about that, and we replied that he hadn't had agreed it's very impor- anything to do with it tant to bring up the since his bar mitzvah. kids with some spiri- At a recent Los Angeles tual foundation, and press conference for that's what I want to Keeping the Faith, Edward Ben Stiller: grew up feel- do — expose them to Norton, proudly called ing cynical about faith, but different religious tra- himself "an honorary Jew." now IM inclined to believe ditions, but I have yet "I've been interested in that you have to have faith to make that deci- in something." and kind of connected to sion." things that were outside Isn't it true Anne the [Episcopalian] tradi- Meara converted to Judaism when tion I was raised in," he said. she married Jerry Stiller? "Growing up, a lot of my very close "She did," says Stiller. "Just before friends were Jewish, and I did go to an my older sister was born, she con- enormous number of bar mitzvahs. I verted to Judaism." knew the whole service by heart by the So he is Jewish by birth, he had a time I was 14. I had a closet full of bar mitzvah, he lives in New York and guest yarmulkes. I've gone to many works in a profession dominated by seders in my life; I've gone to Yom Jews. In fact, his parents are visibly Kippur services. I've participated in the active in Jewish communal causes. service and the dancing at the very Why isn't he "more Jewish"? temple where we shot the film, so I've "It's not that I don't like the reli- always felt a certain connection." gion. Unfortunately I did not have a Even after playing a rabbi, Ben strong religious upbringing. I don't Stiller waxed less enthusiastic. blame anybody but myself. I wasn't "I'm not a religibus person," he connected to it. But as you grow said. "I'm not really involved in orga- older, religion becomes much more nized religion. important to you. I find myself • Ameri can Dueling P 20% OW Total Food Bill Sunday - Thursday One coupon per couple • Not good with an y other offer Ex.fre. 4/28/00 FOR DINNER 7 DAYS 6480 Orchard Lake Road at Maple 248.737.4600 leap \-\ MONDAY & TUESDAY SPECIAL Your 7 entrees to choose from: Dinner for Two • Coteletti (Veal) Parmigiana • Spaghetti and Meatballs [Dinner for one $11=3 •. Chicken Cacciatore 2 entrees • Ziti in Vodka Sauce (choice of 7 entrees) • Eggplant Rollatini 2 glasses of wine Soup or salad • Broiled Whitefish Arregenate Dessert • Eggplant Parmigiana $2299 (ice cream or coffee) 25938 Middlebelt Rd. (at 1 1Mile Rd.) (248) 476.1750 Open 7 days • Lunch: Monday - Friday • Dinner: Monday - Sunday 4/21 2000 95