VOICES OF THE SHOAH Remembrance Of The Holocaust of a couple without official decree. Biblical Updating "We lead very normal lives. We The CCAR maintains that homosex- have a station wagon and a house ual practices were condemned in bib- with a picket fence, a dog, our lical times, but that Jewish tradition- friends, our bank account, we mow al texts were written in a different our lawn," said Grossman. Even so, historical context in a different time "for some people the ceremony made and place, and that basic Jewish val- the difference. For me, it was a ues must take precedence over what bonus. The commitment was in my the Bible describes as transgression. heart — knowing we could do it and Rabbi Sleutelberg said biblical pro- that temple was there for hibitions were concerned us makes temple more with specific homosexual special. It gave us some- practices, but not about thing we didn't think we being a homosexual. "Any would get. modern thinker could rec- "Now members of ognize Halacha [Jewish Temple will know they - law] is, in some ways, out- can do it, too." dated," he said. Even with the knowl- He sites the Talmudic edge that a rabbi's deci- example of "two consent- sions remain personal, ing monogamous lifelong Ellias said he feels "it is committed male partners, important people know who are subject to the it's out there in writing. death penalty, while a Rabbi Arnie Having it sanctioned offi- male pedophile who forces Sleutelberg cially is important. There himself sexually and rapes is a real validity to some- a 9-year-old boy is not. Any enlight- thing being written down." ened person of our day would believe Living the experience of the reli- this makes no sense. I vehemently dis- gious commitment, Ellias said that agree with Halacha on this issue." in January, he and Grossman spoke The resolution encourages long-term to a group of rabbis in Hueston monogamous relationships as con- Woods State Park in Ohio. In sup- tributing to the strength of family life. port of the issue, they participated As Rabbi Kroloff wrote to CCAR in a WRN presentation of the reso- members: "In the past, the Torah was lution to the annual meeting of silent because the question of loving, Great Lakes Ohio Valley Association permanent, homosexual commitment of Reform Rabbis. could hot be conceived by Rabbi Yedwab sees most Jews until recently. But conducting the commit- the Torah is a living voice." ment ceremony as taking In addition to the issue a first step. He views the of same-gender officiation, CCAR as "willing to be the resolution includes the trailblazers, leading the issue of the relationship of way." For him and for a Jewish, same-gender cou- Temple Israel, results of ple being worthy of affir- the vote will bring no mation through appropriate changes. But he said he Jewish ritual. The resolu- feels a "yes" vote may tion also calls for the rab- make an impact when binate to develop sample Rabbi Paul Yedwab faced with an opposing ceremonies or liturgies for synagogue board. But those who choose to con- overall, he suggests, "freedom of the duct them. pulpit extends to the chuppa." Temple Beth El's Rabbi Syme said Rabbi Sleutelberg believes the res- of the resolution, "It shows sensitivity olution is the result of an evolution to the personal integrity of each rabbi within the movement on issues of and at the same time makes a state- gays and lesbians. The resolution's ment of inclusion of all Jews in all wording begins with the reminder walks of life." that "institutions of Reform Judaism Rabbi Paul Menitoff, professional have a long history of support for head of the CCAR, said, "If it passes, civil and equal rights for gays and this will be a groundbreaking resolu- lesbians." tion in that a major religious body will Since 1977, resolutions have been have indicated its support for any of passed supporting lesbian and gay peo- its clergy who decide to officiate at ple with regard to rights and protection. same-gender ceremonies." ❑ . VOICES OF THE SHOAH REME misorANICIES Of. TINIII.HOLocAuST THE FIRST AUDIO DOCUMENTARY OF THE HOLOCAUST AS TOLD BY SURVIVORS AND WITNESSES ganrated by [Mott 410419 ,Ld, fie 4-CD or 4-Cassette flat Set features a too-page book complete trans.a viptionrs„ IrtiStOtiC photos. explanstory essays, *MI mote A u o ..4,4 wo's pito( t t te,(>1* Tiout5, PROffir *rot% 16C ocratoirD TO sv04.444, rot ‘411 Alf it Los Mii414.1% illUSS4011. O MI tgliftS00 20% OFF OFF THE REGULAR PRICE OF VOICES OF THE SHOAH CD Present This Coupon at any HARMONY HOUSE location, and receive 20% OFF the REGULAR PRICE of VOICES OF SHOAH CD or Cassette. No Limit. Void With Other Offers. Excludes Special Orders. This Coupon Must be Presented to Receive Discount. Coupon good in store only. EXPIRES APRIL 6, 2000 JEWISH NEWS 4 HARMONY HOUSE shop online 24 hours a day, 7 days week at www.harmonyhouse.com 38 Locations • Open Daily 10 am-9 prrt • Sundays 12 noon-6 pm HOURS MAY VARY AT SOME STORES 3/24 2000 27