Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.com A Lift's Journey With Style ESTHER ALLWEISS TSCHIRHART Copy Editor N ot many 78-year-old wid- ows would want to drive their little car solo across the U.S. visiting family and friends. But this was the ambition accomplished by Gertrude Maria "GG" Burg of Southfield, a quietly generous woman admired for her gra- ciousness, integrity and high standards. She died Feb. 8 at age 83. When she fled her native Germany in 1933 to join older brother Fred in England, Gertrude Gunz (also called Trudy) had to grow up fast at age 17. She hoped to teach children, but a German-accented schoolteacher wasn't wanted; she hoped to be a doctor, but faced obstacles there, too. In the end, she was educated as a children's dentist at the University of London, and worked in her profession for about 40 years, combining her interests in children and medicine while serving as a role model to her family's younger generations. Mrs. Burg came to the U.S. in the late '40s and took two more years' DAVID SACHS Editorial Assistant W hen one thinks of creative people, the poet or artist come to mind, not a house builder. But to Harry Spoon, building custom homes in northwest Detroit and the suburbs was a similar endeavor. "My father was very excited about creativity," said Jeffrey Spoon. "Driving around town, he had this pride in pointing out what he had done — that he took something from nothing and made something of it." Mr. Spoon of West Bloomfield, who constructed homes, apartments and shopping centers with Spoon Brothers and Spoon Building for 47 years, died Feb. 13 at age 80. Mr. Spoon and his family partners built custom colonials along Outer Drive in northwest Detroit as well as scores of houses in Huntington Woods, Oak Park, Southfield, West Bloomfield and Livonia. "We had a family enclave on Outer Drive," said son Alan Spoon. "My brother, sister and my parents had training at the University of Michigan Dental School. Speaking at the Feb. 11 funeral service at Ira Kaufman Chapel, Jann Davis of Farmington Hills remembered her aunt saying that, as the only woman in her gross anatomy class, her professor was very tough on her. "She had to be extra-prepared every day" to prove herself Mrs. Burg met her late husband Leo Burg when he called square dances at Detroit's International Institute. They married in 1948. During the Burgs' 46-year partner- ship, they helped found Co-op Services, a consumer cooperative con- tinuing today. Co-op's businesses included a project Mrs. Burg particu- larly assisted, Co-op Dental. Mrs. Burg was active with the League of Women Voters' Oakland County Branch, Meals on Wheels and donated to health and nature-related organizations. She gardened (preserving her produce) and camped. For the family, she created the self-published Auntie's Alphabet Book in 1986. As a homemaker, she was known for putting on holiday dinners that seemed effortless, great pies with flaky crusts and a legendary thriftiness — "She always took pride in how many meals she could get out of a meatloaf," Davis said She was a Gertrude "GG" Burg loving mother and aunt. She cheerful- ly accepted one niece calling her Auntie DooDoo — for Gertrude — through- out childhood and she always remem- bered everyone with a birthday gift. "She believed in me and helped my dream of going back to college become a reality," said Davis, an occupational therapist. Ted Burg of Florida said that was his mother's war "She reached out to help others quietly, without drawing attention to herself She lived simply, using just what she needed to get by." Dan Burg noted that when he had the chance to take a better job in Chicago, even though she already was not in good health, his mother encouraged me to go. She was always encouraging me." " A Builder's Builder homes within two blocks of each other. Any of the substantial two-story colonials there with the intricate brick work, it's likely he built them." "Consider the wood- work!" added Jeffrey. "If you ever saw the homes of that era, which had the individ- ual panels, the built-in desk, built-in book- shelf — they built Harry Spoon that. They had their own carpenter on staff. They built their own kitchen cabi- nets. "The key of our family business was the quality of construction," he added. "We were known as custom builders. As a person, Mr. Spoon was just as sturdy as his homes. "My dad was a very strong individ- ual," said Jeffrey. "His morals were the utmost. He was from the school where if you shook somebody's hand and you said we had a deal, we had a deal." "He saw things in black and white, with sur- prising clarity," said Alan. "You were his friend or you weren't. You were determined to be honest or otherwise. If he had reason to trust you, it last- ed a lifetime. "And things for my father just had to be right," he added. When Alan and his wife Terri bought their first house in Massachusetts, his father visited them and gave it a once-over, finding 100 items in need of repair or improvement. Mr. Spoon's father and uncle, George and Max, started as partners in the building business in the 1920s. Harry Spoon was a pharmacist for several years before joining his broth- er Julius and cousin Herbert as the new generation in the family business following World War II. Mrs. Burg had dreamed of taking a long trip across country but her husband kept delaying his retirement. Niece Sally McCutcheon of Ontario, in a letter read at the funeral service, wrote, "When Leo died so unex- pectedly, your true mettle shone through. Your solo journey [at age 78] across the States and back was truly heroic. Whenever I tell people about you, it is the story of that trip in your little Neon." Soon after her eight-week jour- ney ended, Mrs. Burg's brain tumor was diagnosed. As her health deteriorated, she didn't complain, fac- ing her death with dignity, strength and bravery. Mrs. Burg is survived by her sons and daughter-in-law, Theodore and Joy Burg of Pembroke Pines, Fla., and Daniel Burg of Chicago; grandchildren Franklin and Gwendolyn Burg; broth- ers-in-law and sisters-in-law Joan Gunz of Australia, Zyga and Irma Allweiss of West Bloomfield and Richard and Christa Burg of Chugiak, Alaska; 10 nieces and nephews. She was the beloved wife of the late Leon Burg. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Ira Kaufman Chapel. ❑ "It was a partnership of deep trust, few formalities, tolerance, care and love, said Alan. Rabbi Herbert Yoskowitz of Adat Shalom Synagogue spoke at the funeral Feb. 14 at Ira Kaufman Chapel. "Harry Spoon's colleagues refer to him, as a builder's builder," said the rabbi. "Not only a builder of buildings, but also a builder of family. A builder of love relationships. A builder of ideas. And also a builder of Adat Shalom Synagogue. For that he was too, as was his father, builders always, [wanting] to leave something behind that would outlast him." Mr. Spoon is survived by his daugh- ter, Linda Spoon-Simonton of Huntington Woods; sons and daugh- ters-in-law, Jeffrey Spoon and Terri Ginsburg of Ann Arbor, Alan and Terri Spoon of Maryland; 12 grandchildren; sister, Shirley Barak of Florida. For 53 years, Mr. Spoon was the beloved husband of the late Mildred Spoon. Interment was at Adat Shalom Memorial Park. Contributions may be made to the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Detroit. . ❑ 2/18 2000 137