Spirituality How To Wrap Tefillin 1. After putting on the tallit, begin by rolling up the sleeve of the weaker (non- writing) arm above the bicep. Tha t "II Video offers history, meaning and instruction on the mitzvah of wearing tefillin. L) 2. Place the bayit (box) on the shel yad (arm tefillin) on the top of the bicep so that the box is facing toward the heart. 3. Take the strap and place it through the slip knot. Before tightening the strap. Recite blessing. 4. According to your tradition, wind the strap clockwise (Ashkenazic) or counter- clockwise (Sephardic) below the elbow. 5. Continue to wind the tefillin strap seven times around the forearm and wrap the remaining strap around the palm of the hand. Rabbi Deborah Orenstein, Jewish 6. Hold the shel rosh (head tefillin) in educator and editor, your hands. Recite blessing. offers a response to nyone who has ever helped their teen learn to tie a tie understands the frustration of the task. Now imagine the situation of those teaching someone to put on tefillin. uncomfortable with Michael Balkin Michael Balkin of West Bloomfield had an idea women in tefillin. 7. Place the shel rosh around the head, making sure that the bayit to make not only the wrapping of the tefillin simpler, but "How normal of you," she says, that some- rests on your hairline above and to couple the lesson with a study on the religious practice's thing essentially foreign to you for a couple between your eyes. background and significance. Tefillin are the pair of leather of millennium seems odd." boxes (phylacteries) containing parchment scrolls that are Narrated by Rabbi David Wolpe, the strapped to the weaker arm and to the head above the hair- video features Rabbi Joel Rembaum of line during morning weekday prayers. Temple Beth Am in Los Angeles, who calls 8. The knot on the back of the tefill- Balkin's vision, says Ralph Zuckman, president of the himself a "link in the chain of Rembaums in strap should be resting on the soft spot on the back of your head. Take Congregation Shaarey Zedek Men's Club, sparked the creation binding themselves to their Judaism." the straps and drape them on either "of an inspirational and instructional video on the mitzvah of Demonstrating, step-by-step, the place- side of the neck. tefillin," titled "The Ties That Bind." ment of each component of the tefillin, "Going to minyan and seeing how many people don't know Rabbi Rembaum includes discussion of the how to use tefillin, I saw a need for the video," says Balkin, a meaning and the blessings that accompany former president of the Southfield synagogue's men's club. each part of the process. 9. Unwind the strap from around After presenting his concept to the synagogue, Balkin says he At a total cost of $50,000, a large por- the palm. Wind the strap around the decided, "If I was going to do this, I wanted to do it right." So, don of the donations for the videotape middle and first (index) fingers once. he enlisted the men's club, got the backing of the synagogue and came from local supporters, including pitched the idea to Rabbi Charles Simon, executive director of Balkin, the =Shaarey Zedek rabbis, Harold the Federation of Jewish Men's . Clubs. and Penny Blumenstein of Bloomfield 10. Wind the remainder of the strap Rabbi Simon and Balkin set out to raise money throughout Hills, the Eugene and Marcia Applebaum two more times around the middle the country and interview production teams. When they discov- Parenting Center in West. Bloomfield and finger. Recite blessing. ered independent film producer Mark Rothman at Ness U.S. Ambassador to Norway David Herinelin and wife Doreen. Productions, Inc. they had their director and scriptwriter as well. The 24-minute video was produced in Los Angeles at Sinai So far, 300 tapes have been sold to men's Temple and the University of Judaism, with input from the clubs throughout the United States. 11. Bring the remainder down to the Balkin says the tape, dedicated to the Institute of Conservative Judaism. Balkin attended much of the wrist and wrap it three times around the top of the hand to form the let- five- to six-day video taping. memory of his late father, Sam Balkin, is ter shin. The documentary-style video is actually a series of commen- priced to be "sold as a service, to make Reverse the steps to remove. taries, interspersed with historical photos and segments demon- sure everyone who wants to learn to put strating the construction of the tefillin. on tefillin, can." Ranging from putting "a halt to the craziness" of the morn- The dramatic ending of the video is the ing to the symbol of winding it like a bandage reminiscent of blending of scene after familiar scene, of Instructions and bless ings healing, lay persons and clergy in the video discuss family tradi- leather wrapped on arm after arm, with voices reciting the for wrapping:- t011in. tions, feelings and meanings behind the wearing of tefillin. prayers,. in Hebrew and in English, loudly and in whispers. Originally produced for men, the Against the musical background, the video was edited later to offer an adults and youth are fulfilling a mitz- For information on obtaining "The Ties That egalitarian version as well, citing the vah stated in the Torah, "And you shall Bind" ($28), or a kit including the video, a set Conservative movement's inclusion bind them as a sign upon your hand of tefillin and tefillin bag (5220), call Andrew of women in fulfilling the com- and they shall be as frontlets between Beider, of West Bloomfield: (248) 851 - 0925. mandment of wearing tefillin. your eyes"(Deuteronomy 6:8). II SHELLI DORFMAN StaffWriter 10/29 1999 74 Detroit Jewish News