Stephan Becharas . . . and The Staff Of ,gh& ry on people in his bar mitzvah speech in the Minneapolis synagogue where he grew up. Now, the process of writ- ing involves a "long wind-up." It takes him days to "marinate" his ideas, with much walking and ruminating on the approach. But when he finally sits down, the writing flows. Rabbi Leder is one of three rab- bis serving his congregation, which has more than 2,000 families, with many Hollywood connections; among the members are network presidents, stu- dio heads, agents, directors, producers and writers. He began working there 12 years ago at age 26, just after graduating from rabbinical school, and says that he can see spending the rest of his career there. "Being a rabbi in a large congre- gation keeps you so firmly grounded, so intensely connected to life's highest and lowest moments. It helps me to count my blessings and avoid taking anything for granted. Every time I leave a cemetery — sometimes it's three times in a week — I call my wife. I'm always reminded in my work how pre- cious life is." P1 6638 Telegraph Road at Maple (248) 851-0313 In the Bloomfield Plaza Sincerely Wish Their Many Friends and Customers AVERY HAPPY NEW YEAR Thank you for your gracious patronage. It is with deep sincerity that we wish everyone the best in health, joy and prosperity. io rffillINIMININININI ■1■ 1111111 ■■■•■■ • MMSM:::n...::ZAMEM.MITMEMEMMEENOMMEMEMMNWRA When we look back at the calendar of our lives how many pages are worth saving? We schedule business appoint- ments — mastering the lessons of time management and efficiency. But do we really manage our time well? Have we celebrated with our children? Have we visited our aging parents and grandpar- ents or made that phone call to the friend whose loved one is sick? Have we hugged each other enough? Do our children, our parents, our brothers and sisters, our partners in life and love, know what they mean to us? Time is finite and insight elusive. Sometimes the search seems futile, lonely and unsure. But if there is meaning in life — real, deep, eternal meaning — it is hiding in that force which drives us to be with each other. A child's smile, the warmth of human love, surviving pain, God's beautiful earth and its creatures, knowing that the music of our lives must someday cease — therefore how precious is the melody while it lasts — all of this is meaning, all of this is sacred, all of this can be ours. — From "The Extraordinary Nature of Ordinary Things," by Rabbi Steven Z. Leder 10 Mile at Southfield Road 559-4230 e4 M119S0 and it's entire staff Extend Best Wishes For A Joyous and Healthy NEW YEAR Don't 13e A Drip! Get Your Faucet Fixed! Check out the Plumbers in our Marketplace Home and Service Guide. Any Coffee • Purc 1 coupon per customer • . 6. Mb. .0. ... WI*" rei,9130199 •• ■ • 5741 W. MAPLE • WEST BLOOMFIELD • 248-865-8870 (Just west of Orchard Lake Rd.) Detroit Jewish News 9/10 1999 R9