When your stock portfolio is looking good, it makes financial sense to increase your charitable giving. for Temple Sholom High Holiday ser- vices is $250. It just seems like synagogues should be above that kind of clever marketing. But as Temple Sholom Membership Director Bekki Harris Kaplan explains, synagogues are not run on prayer alone. "Our costs (for putting on High Holiday services) are exorbitant," Kaplan said. "We fix up the build- ing, make sure everything is glisten- ing. We have to move the bima back into the social hall so everyone can sit together. Then there's main- tenance, books and security." But that's not why Temple Sholom prices High Holiday tickets to reach a younger membership. The bottom line is, we believe Judaism is a year-round thing," Kaplan said. "We really encourage affiliation." Kaplan brings up the Many synagogues seem to be aware of this separation- from-childhood anxiety. myth she and membership directors everywhere would love to debunk — that synagogues are for family, and you don't need to belong until you have kids. Of course that's not true. But the thing is, until I have a family of my own, I'm going to think of my par- ents as my immediate family. So will my parents, who were rather upset to learn that after all they've given to our synagogue through the years, their daughter's High Holiday ticket is no longer provided. Kaplan gets complaints from many parents of grown children. Temple Sholom is now exploring the concept of a junior member- ship, of maybe $175, for people up to age 25 who grew up in the con- gregation but are not yet ready to commit. Sounds like a reasonable compro- mise to me. I'm going to suggest it to my home congregation, but see if we can't stretch that age limit to 30. DI 50 40 3 That's right. And a philanthropic fund is a great way to do it. Make a gift of securities, cash or property, and you can recommend where you'd like charitable distributions from the fund to be placed. Join more than 1,000 others who have created endowment funds totaling almost $300 million with distributions of approximately $20 million per year to local and national charitable organizations. The charities that are important to you and your family benefit, while you receive tax deductions — both at the time of the donation and at any subsequent time that you contribute to the fund. To find out more about philanthropic funds, the benefits to you and your community, call a member of the endowment staff at (248) 642-4260. is United Jewish Foundation T his is -ecleration of rletropoldon Detort dti, &iTAA, 3,0,11/ cat& 3 ,cm/us} 6A,Q92.42A, 91AZA'Qi C1J ro ve ) UZ I r r 1 7 X i t `7 X Join Rabbi Aaron Bergman for a Latte & Learning session entitled "The Kol Nidre Story" at Borders Books & Music in Farmington Hills on Monday, September 13, @ 10:00 am. No charge, no reservations required. Our fall classes begin the week of October 4. For more information, call Nancy Kaplan at 248.737.1931, or e-mail eilulearn@aol.com or visit our website at http://www.cbahm.org/eilu.htm 9/10 1999