The Scene The Ticket Dilemma On The High Holidays ALLISON KAPLAN Special to the Jewish News IV ay back at my bat mitz- vah, the rabbi explained how I was becoming an adult in the eyes of Jewish law. But only now, 14 years later, is my synagogue enforcing that status. According to the congregation I have attended since birth, I no longer count as my parents' child. Talk about tough love. What this really means is it now costs $75 if I want to go to High Holiday services with my family. Rolling Stones tickets don't even cost that much. Yet in shopping around for a High Holiday venue — now that I'm a castoff, er, adult — I find that Rolling Stones tickets don t even cost that much. MAY THE NEW YEAR BRING HEALTH AND HAPPINESS TO ALL OUR FRIENDS Florence Abel Linda Franklin Kate Browner Anu Gandhi Lauren Bruss Iris Goldstein Lillian Hoard Sharon & Andy Collins Jeff Katzen Dennis P. Dickstein Connie Kramer Olena Drobot Esther Liwazer Irene Eagle Marcia Miller Rosalie Fox RALPH MANUEL ' $75 is actually a bar- gain. Some syn- agogues go as high as $300 for non-mem- ber High Holiday tickets. I've seen others advertise "Only $150 per person!" as if Rosh HaShana and Yom Kippur were an end-of- the-summer clearance sale. Did Ticketmaster get hold of the High Holiday account? As a Jewish twentysomething, I find myself somewhat disillusioned this time of year. Okay, sure, Fryi getting married in nine months. I'm financially independent. Nobody tells me what time to go to bed. I pack my own lunches. Allison Kaplan is a freelance writer in Chicago. Renee Miller Melanie Mitchell Sheila IL Morganroth Sheila Rose Robert Schuman Judy Stein Kimberly A. Szaro Susan Weinstock ASSOCIATES-WEST, INC. • REALTORS® 248 851 6900 - - A WISH FOR HEALTH, HAPPINESS AND PROSPERITY IN THE COMING YEAR FROM JANET RANDOLPH AND STAFF gets results! 248-354-6060 ext 209 book coumens travel first center building • suite 115 26913 northwestern highway southfield, michigan 48034 phone: 248/262-1560 9/10 1999 Detroit Jewish News in