The Way, We Learn DIANA LIEBERN/LAN Staff T he last thing that Jewish educators want is for par- ents to drop off their chil- dren at the synagogue and go home again. But that's been the case all too often, says Lisa Soble Siegmann, and she'd like to change the scenario. Since July, when the 34-year-old educator was named to head Detroit's Jewish Experiences For Families (JEFF), she's been working on ways to get mom, dad, grandma, grandpa — the whole mishpacha — involved with exciting and relevant activities to . strengthen everyone's ties to Judaism. Siegmann has six years of experi- ence and a newly expanded budget — the mega-grant received recently by the Agency for Jewish Education (AJE) from Bill and Madeleine Berman includes $1 million ear- marked for family education. "There aren't many trained family educators in the country," said Judah Isaacs, AJE's executive director. "She's full of good ideas and has a lot of energy. ,, In an interview, Siegmann said she envisions Jewish family education as an ongoing series of related programs and events aimed at specific age levels and designed to interest parents and grandparents as well as children. - "It can't be a one-shot deal, with limited access," she said. It has to happen on a continuing basis, not an event here and there. One specific priority she men- tioned: "Have a family educator in every synagogue." Siegmann was able to accomplish this goal in her last job, as director of family Jewish education for the Columbus Commission on Jewish Education. There, she won funding from the local federation and private sponsors, including the Bermans. That grant also allowed her to gain the con- sulting services of Harlene Appelman, who began JEFF as a four-congrega- tion project in 1986 and was its first Detroit-area leader. But before the grant, the Columbus job was a one-person operation — one part-time person. Unfazed by the responsibility, Siegmann went out to service each congregation, one at a time. "What I'm proudest of was being Diana Lieberman can be reached at (248) 354-6060, ext. 247, or by e-mail at dlieberm@thejewishnews.com 8/13 1999 12 Detroit Jewish News Learning Fa The Family Detroit's new director of family education outlines her goals. • 0 Lisa Soble Siegmann in her office at the Agency for Jewish Education. able to broaden the scope of educa- tion," she said. "What kind of pro- grams did we do? Retreats, fairs, ongo- ing programs — you name it, we did it." Her Columbus-area programs began with the very youngest children and their families, including "Tot Shabbat." "Bet" Bible Heroes, named for the second letter of the Hebrew alphabet, was designed, appropriately, for sec- ond-graders. Each child chose a favorite biblical hero or heroine, and, along with other family members, pre- pared a hands-on presentation - about that person. Every family led an activi- ty once during the program's four- month duration. For older students, they and their parents attended a series on compara- tive religion, hearing from speakers of different religions and from different parts of the world. Siegmann said another very effec- tive program for high-schoolers and their families was "Living in the Bonus Round," a presentation on HIV-AIDS. It involved singing and personal narrative by Steve Chalchlin, a folksinger who himself has AIDS. The program tied in to bicur cholim, comforting the sick, one of the major Jewish ethical responsibilities, Siegmann pointed out. "The teens took it very seriously," she said. Its one thing to hear about AIDS in an abstract sense, and anoth- er to meet someone like Steve, who has such a great attitude." Originally from Cleveland, Siegmann graduated from Ohio State University with a degree in elementary education. She spent a year working in Israel through Project Otzma, a Jewish leadership development program for ages 20 24. That's where she met her husband, Tal Siegmann, an Israeli vet- erinary student. After a variety of jobs at the Columbus Jewish Community Center, ---\ Siegmann returned to Ohio State to earn a master's degree in social work administration/Jewish Communal Service. The JEFF job had been vacant for more than a year. Appelman had tried to interest Siegmann in it for months. "Then my husband was offered a residency in Detroit," Siegmann said,‹ "so I called Harlene and said, 'Is the job still open?'" In Detroit, Siegmann faced inter- views with 11 people in one day. "I was so exhausted, I could barely make it to the plane," she recalled. "But I met some wonderful people here, peo- ple who really care about family edu- cation." She accepted the job even though her husband decided not to take the residency. Among her first priorities as JEFF coordinator is placing a family educa- tion coordinator in every synagogue and school. "The community can't be rich in experiences with only limited access," she said. "The rabbis and educational directors here that I've spoken to really want this to happen." She also is looking to continue and strengthen partnerships with the Fresh Air Society, the Jewish Community Center of Metropolitan Detroit, local congregations and others, while adding new partners. Although there are few 'people in this community specifically trained for the job of family educator, Siegmann said she feels that she will be able to train them — as long as the potential school coordinators are dedicated, committed creative people with a Jewish background. "We found them in Columbus," she said. "We'll find them here." - Continuing with our newly announced theme of "The Way We Learn," this article and oth- ers on Jewish education are available on JN Online www.detroitjewishnews.com