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And university studies are in the picture, too. Asked to compare their lives to what they think of as their parents' lives at the same age, they say that they have a big, unquestionable advantage. "My mother's parents kept her at home all the time, they kept such tight control over her, they wouldn't let her go out," says one. Another adds, "My parents worked so hard. They did more by 9 in the morning than I do all day. They had to feed the chickens and dig in the Youth Conspiracy All rates P.O. Dbl. except where noted. Restrictions apply & offers may be withdrawn by cruise line at any time. WE ST BLOOMFI ELD they screw up their faces, laugh with embarrassment and say, "Nah. Not yet." But Professor Avner Ziv, a psychol- ogist at Tel Aviv University who spe- cializes in youth, says he's been sur- veying young Israelis' sexual behavior for the last 25 years. "Last year, the average age for start- ing sex was 14," he says. "A genera- tion ago this was unthinkable; they were starting at 17. It's about the same here as in the U.S. or Western Europe." Drug use, meaning marijuana or hashish, also ordinarily begins in Israel at . 14 or 15, Dr. Ziv adds. So while Israeli pre-adolescents are not yet sexual libertines or drug- ! ! ! i i I i I throng of adults and adolescents, sitting around a table and eating at pricey restaurants, or at McDonald's or Burger King. They spend loads of money. They lean over the escalator railing and watch for friends coming in downstairs. They eye each other walking Israeli youngsters use the telephones at a shopping mad by. They're 12 years old, and 11, and 10. addled burnouts, they aren't exactly It's understood that Israeli kids kids either. Mind you, today's youth grow up relatively fast, that they're are really the first crop of Israeli kids independent compared to young peo- with money, the first to grow up on ple in most other countries, what commercial — and, increasingly, with the impending army require- American — TV, the first generation ment and the brashness and self-asser- hooked up to the Internet. tion of Israelis. But it's always some- "And their parents give them the thing of a shock when you see kids money," says Bar-Ilan University sociol- this young, well, looking like ogist Dr. David Green, who studies teenagers on the make. young people's behavior. In Israel, the A conversation with them is a win- motto could be, 'Every child a king.'" dow into Israel's future. After all, the Not surprisingly, young people's vast majority of the country remains connection to Zionism and Israel isn't secular. And this is the next genera- what it used to be, either. Of the five tion. girls in the living room, three plan to In a living room in a middle-class stay in Israel. town in central Israel, five 12-year-old As one said about the United girls say the most any of their class- States, "It's safer. Better quality of mates do in the realm of vice is smoke life." And another adds, "When the a few cigarettes, and only a few of movies are finishing [their run] in them do that. Asked about dating, ground. They had to take my grandparents < [immigrants from Morocco and Yemen] everywhere and explain everything to them because my grandpar- ents couldn't under- stand Hebrew. I just have so much admira- tion for what my par- < ents went through. I never would have sur- vived." And they don't care about politics. The only "issue" they mentioned was the secular-religious split. "The only thing that scares me about the future is having an over- draft at the bank," one allows, with a little shudder. This generation of Israeli 10- to 12-year-olds is powerful like their pre- decessors never were, says Dr. Green. "Nobody can control them — not their parents, not their teachers. Authority is nothing but an abstract concept to them." Are kids like this only in Israel? "No," replies Dr. Ziv. "There's not much difference between the pre-ado- lescents in Israel, and in America and Europe. They watch a lot of the same TV. And they can communicate with each other, you know, on the Internet. It appears to be an interna- tional conspiracy." _