`Hero' Kept On Giving DAVID SACHS Editorial Assistant Click onto People-Voice Connecter Personals via the Internet. You'll be delighted just how easily our website allows you to read ads, place ads and respond to ads by e-mail. Get updated or new ads before they print in the newspaper. Net somebody great over the net! Try it today! Go to wwvv.detroitjewishnews.com and click on A s a boy in pre-war Poland, Louis Kay was nurtured by pious parents who instilled in him lessons of tzedaka. Before Shabbat dinner, for instance, they would send him out to deliver home-cooked meals to the poor. Being enslaved in concentration camps during the Holocaust exposed him to the other side of the equation — how it felt to be without help or hope. As the sole survivor of a 200-member family, Louis Kay settled in Detroit and in 1969 built a marble Holocaust memor- ial at Hebrew Memorial Park to his slain parents, relatives and neighbors. He also lived his life as an ongoing memorial to his parents' lessons of caring for others. For years he would pick up bread at 5 a.m. and deliver it to the Capuchin soup kitchen. He also aided fel- low survivors, his employees and Jewish and civic organizations. Mr. Kay was named a "Mitzvah Hero" by the Jewish News in 1989. "I am happy to help people. I still remember what it was like for me" (during the Holocaust), he said at the time. Mr. Kay, of Farmington Hills, died July 11 at age 73. "He always had an open hand," said Rabbi A. Irving Schnipper, rabbi emeritus of Congregation Beth Abraham Hillel Moses, who eulogized him Monday at Hebrew Memorial Chapel. "He was there whenever anyone needed him." "My father had a second job — tzeda- ka," said Mark Kay. 'And he worked at it full-time, too." Louis Kay came to Detroit in 1949. He soon found work and later opened Louis Kay Enterprises, a recycling firm in Detroit. He would always lend a helping hand to his employees, paying for schooling, surgeries and family funerals. He would even hire convicts who would not other- wise qualify for parole. "He was also very caring for the wel- EDNA ARNKOFF, 77, of Southfield, IN MEMORY OF RABBI RICHARD C. HERTZ UDM TEACHER AND SCHOLAR WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HIS 30 YEARS WITH US. OF DETROIT MERCY 7/16 1999 150 Detroit Jewish News died July 7. She is survived by her brother, George Miller of Van Nuys, Calif.; sis- ters-in-law and brothers-in-law Mary and George Stutz, Bernice and Morris Arnkoff, Rebecca Freedman. Mrs. Arnkoff was the beloved wife of the late Isadore Arnkoff. Graveside services at Beth Tefilo Emanuel Cemetery. Contributions may be made to a charity of one's choice. Arrangements by Dorfman Funeral Direction. fare of his fellow sur- vivors," said Rabbi Charles Rosenzweig, director of the Holocaust Memorial Louis Kay Center in West Bloomfield. "He would go all out to help and seek others to help out too." Mr. Kay was a charter member of Congregation Beth Shalom, a founding member of B'nai B'rith Einstein Lodge and Shaarit Haplayta survivors organiza- tion. He was an original supporter of the Holocaust Memorial Center and a mem- ber of the Knights of Pythias. He was honored for his support by Israel Bonds, the Jewish National Fund, the B'nai Brith Foundation, the City of Hope, the Holocaust Memorial Center and the city of Detroit. - After the war, Mr. Kay returned to his home village of Wloszczowa, Poland, to search for family, but found only pho- tographs that were saved by a teenaged neighbor. He cherished those pho- tographs, the only remnants of his family, placing copies on the memorial he built along with the names of all the family and friends he could remember, said his son, Victor. He carried the pictures of his fam- ily in his wallet. Mr. Kay is survived by his wife of 46 years, Gladys Kay; sons and daughters-in- law Dr. -Marc and Jacqueline Kay of Paradise Valley, Ariz., Dr. Victor and Hedva Kay of Jerusalem, Stuart and Renee Kay of West Bloomfield; sister-in- law Eileen Silverman; grandchildren Rachel Kay, Joshua Kay, Tamar Kay, Yonatan Kay, Assaf Kay, Sammy Kay, Lexie Kay, Lainie Camen; Abbee Camen. Contributions may be made to Yad Ezra, 26641 Harding, Oak Park, MI 48237. Interment at Hebrew Memorial Park. ❑ MARY BEEN, 82, of Farmington Hills, died July 9. She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Kenneth and Claudia Been of Farmington Hills; daughters and sons-in-law Phyliss and Dr. Donald Rochen of West Bloomfield, Barbara and Abe Weberman of Farmington Hills; sisters and brothers- in-law Yetta Zager of West Bloomfield, Natalie and Irving Baker of West Bloomfield, Flora and Gerald Sachs of Novi; grandchildren Steve Rochen, Doug Rochen, Debbie Rochen, Andy