SPECIAL COMMENTARY THE FAMILY LIFE CENTER of Temple Israel Shoes That Won't Be Filled In conjunction with The Temple Treasures and The Caring Community AS PART OF OUR REGULAR AFTERNOON. PROGRAM FOR SENIORS INVITES YOU TO HEAR OUR VERY OWN CANTOR LORI CORRSIN Thursday, July 15, 1999 1:30 - 3:00 p.m. Temple Israel Rabbi Loss will be there to greet and chat with us. PLEASE JOIN US FOR COFFEE, COOKIES, AND GOOD COMPANY. COME ALONE OR BRING A FRIEND. OPEN TO THE COMMUNITY FREE OF CHARGE. NO RESERVATIONS NECESSARY. PLEASE CALL KARI K. PROVIZER, ACSW; Director of the Family Life Center If you have any questions, (248) 661-5700 Funded by the David and Lois Stulberg Foundation --' 4 11■:■11p, ELAGSTAR' Our CDs Don't play Music, but could be Music 5.09A, to your Ears BANK Member F.D.I.C. One Year Certificate A.P.Y.* 248-338-7700 or 248-352-7700 2600 Thlegraph Rd. • Bloomfield Hills • MI 48302 7/9 1999 This is a Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation insured account (FDIC). A minimum opening deposit and balance of $500.00 is required to obtain the stated Annual Percentage Yield. *Annual percentage yield when compounded quarterly. Rate is accurate as of 3/26/99. Penalty for early withdrawal from certificate accounts may be assessed. 34 Detroit Jewish News wore Rabbi Weinberg's shoes. I never filled them. I just wore them. It's not a joke. It hap- pened. Dark gray suede Hush Puppies, with W NW ' the black soles. Several years ago, Rebbetzin Channah Wein- berg, wife of the late Rosh Yeshiva Yaakov S. Wein- berg, met with me to do a story PHIL JACOBS on Bikur Contributing Editor Cholim, the organization she founded that visits Jewish hospital patients. We met in her suburban Baltimore home at Ner Israel's Yeshiva Lane. < Something you need to know. Rebbet- zin Weinberg has always been one of my heroes. She was back in the 1980s, because she was active with a fledgling group called Caregivers. This group was to provide respite care for families with different circumstances. I served on a board with Mrs. Weinberg, as did my late father, Morton Jacobs. When my dad became ill with cancer, the rebbetzin's advice helped us in many ways. There are many of us in this community who can say that about both Mrs. Weinberg and her late hus- band. Her work in caring for this community is legendary. She went on to also found GHANA, the organiza- tion that cares for battered spouses and their families. -, There we were in the Weinbergs' living room. We talked informally and then began the interview. Shortly into the discussion, Mrs. Weinberg seemed to be sizing up my feet, but I wasn't sure why, or even if it was true. Then she asked me, "What size shoe do you wear, Phil?" I've been asked questions such as "When will this run in the paper?" or "Can we go off the record?" Nobody has ever asked me about my shoes. I answered the question. "Why are you asking me this?" "Phil," was the response, now with a little intensity attached to it, "What size shoe do you wear?" I told her. She disappeared to the back of her home. When she came back, she had a shoebox. She pulled out one shoe from the tissue paper and said, "Here, try this on." I answered: "I can't try this on. This is an interview." "Try on the shoes, Phil." This was the rebbetzin speaking. I