Obituaries are updated regularly and archived on JN Online: www.detroitjewishnews.com Physician Overcame MS DAVID SACHS Editorial Assistant M y father knew how to celebrate life," said Lynne Obron. "He never focused on his disabilities. He never complained." Dr. Gerald Benaderet, a Bloomfield Hills physical medicine and rehabilita- tion specialist, died June 16 at age 66. He courageously struggled 37 years with multiple sclerosis (MS) and more recently with a cancer, multiple myelo- ma. Despite being progressively crip- pled by MS, he built a thriving med- ical practice and raised two children V ho followed him into medicine. "He thoroughly enjoyed his life and work," said his daughter, a physical therapist. "Every day he did it with such enthusiasm and spirit." Said his son Steven Benaderet, a medical student, He gave me a great philosophy of life — how to take a moment and really enjoy it and keep it a memory He set an example for his kids to always strive to do the best we could do in life." Growing up in Detroit, Dr. Benaderet excelled in athlet- ics. He earned a pharmacy degree from Wayne University and became a doctor of osteopathic Dr. Gerald Benaderet medicine, attend- ing schools in Des Moines,'Iowa, and Chicago. He was in general practice when diagnosed with MS at age 30. For the next 12 years, as the effects of his dis- ease progressed, he was in a general and weight-control practice at the Kenwood Medical Center in Detroit. In the early 1970s he completed a resi- dency in physical medicine and found- ed Tri-County Associates of Medicine in Southfield, providing independent medical examinations. "I feel blessed for our 31-year mar- riage and for his philosophy," said his wife, Dede Benaderet. "I loved him. We had a wonderful marriage. We were best friends. "He would never get frustrated with little things. 'It could always be worse,' he would say. I became a more mellow A Long, Rappy Life DAVID SACHS Editorial Assistant S ylvan "Rappy" Rapaport enjoyed life and his family. He was a kind of Renaissance man with wide-ranging inter- ests, from symphony and opera to photography, ham radio, sailing, University of Michigan sports, elec- tronic gadgetry and travel. On his 90th birthday, he told a joke that concluded with the lament, "Oh, to be 75 again." He was able to smile about the passing of years, never expecting to live so long. Mr. Rapaport, a retired Southfield attorney, died June 19 at age 92. Despite the economic depression of the 1930s, Mr. Rapaport's high honors and law review experience at U-M helped secure a job and eventual part- nership with the corporate law firm of Friedman, Meyers & Keys. One of his clients was Borman Foods and when the law firm dissolved, he became gen- 6/25 1999 150 Detroit Jewish News eral counsel for the supermarket chain. He retired at age 80, help- ing steer Borman in its merger with A&P. His daughter, Sylvan Rapaport Ida Glass of Oak Park, recalls her father as "a very honest person, very ethical." His 56-year mar- riage to the late Hinde Goldstein was described as "a wonderful and true love affair." His companion Sylvia Baer has shared his life in recent years. Mr. Rapaport's parents were owners of a clothing store in Lansing whose slogan was "Dress Snappy, See Rappy," hence the nickname. He maintained a dapper style, wearing a houndstooth sports jacket even in 90-degree weather. "He, in many ways, was the last of his generation," said Rabbi Harold S. Loss of Temple Israel, where Mr. Rapaport was a charter member. Mr. Rapaport was active in Pisgah person. I respected him. He set an example. He always tried his hardest." His partner at Tri-County, adminis- trator Bonnie Gaiera, worked with Dr. Benaderet since 1978. "His most over- riding feature was his very quiet sense of humor, she said. Humor is what kept him going." When illness forced him to retire in 1991, he kept active reading, learning the computer and enjoying his family. Rabbi Joshua L. Bennett of Temple Israel said Dr. Benaderet was a man of grace, love and dignity "He lived his life according to the definition of his own last name — Benaderet — son of a good person. He himself took that legacy on and passed it to his family with the kindness of his soul." Dr. Benaderet is also survived by his son-in-law, Dr. Jeffrey Obron of Bloomfield Hills; mother Yetta Benaderet; grandchildren Elyse and Jacob Obron; brother and sister-in-law Sol and Rhoda Benaderet; sister Shirley Nachman. Dr. Benaderet was the father of the late Brian David Benaderet and the son of the late Morris Benaderet. Contributions may be made the Multiple Sclerosis Society. Interment at Clover Hill Park Cemetery. Arrange- ments by the Ira Kaufinan Chapel. Lodge of B'nai B'rith, the Standard Club and the Great Lakes Yacht Club and was a Boy Scout leader. He lived by and taught good moral and social values, say his daughters. Rabbi Loss described him as "a gen- tleman and a wonderful father, grand- father, husband and friend" and "a truly unique and loving man." He was a man who told his chil- dren that he simply wanted in life three happy daughters," said Rabbi Loss, "That's a beautiful thing for any of us as a parent to tell our children." Mr. Rapaport is also survived by his daughters and sons-in-law, Ida and Henry Glass of Oak Park, Susan King of Lake Worth, Fla., Mary and Alan Phillpotts of Leominster, Mass; grand- children Sharon and Michael Fishman, David and Laurie Glass, Steven Glass, Michael King, Catherine and Edward Haubenstricker, Shari King, Anna and Robert Kinney, Richard Klein, Gabri- elle Klein; seven great-grandchildren. Interment at Machpelah Cemetery. Contributions may be made to a chari- ty of one's choice. Arrangements by the Ira Kaufman Chapel. E PHYLLIS ATTIS, 74, former Detroiter of Sunrise, Fla., died June 21. She is survived by her husband, Jack Attis; daughters and son-in-law Lyn Friedman, Bonnie and Jim Hernan; sister Lillian Gallant; sister- in-law Jean Begelfer; granddaughter Emily Friedman. ABRAHAM BASSIN, 85, of Royal Oak, died June 21. He is survived by his wife Dessie Bassin; son and daughter-in-law Michael and Sonia Bassin of Royal Oak; daughters and sons-in-law Alice and James Hopper of Westlake, Ohio, Betty and Thomas McWilliams of Ontario; brothers and sisters-in-law Alex and Ann Bassin of Tallahassee, Fla., James and Sylvia Bassin of New York City, c--/ Samuel and Gertrude Bassin of Dumont, N.J.; 13 grandchildren, three great-grandchildren. Mr. Bassin was the beloved hus- band of the late Sandra Bassin. Chapel services and interment at the Woodmere Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the William Beaumont Hospital Heart Fund or to the American Diabetes Association, 30600 Telegraph Rd. #2255, Bingham Farms, MI 48025. Arrangements by Dorfman Funeral Direction. EDITH PEARL BLACK, 70, a Windsor native of Rancho Mirage, Calif., died June 13. She was a regis- tered nurse trained at Providence Hospital. She is survived by her sons, Dr. Kenneth Gerenraich of Seal Beach, Calif., Robert Gerenraich of Palm Springs, Calif., Howard Gerenraich of Farmington Hills; brothers Bill Pearl of Windsor, Morris Pearl of Delray Beach, Fla., Dr. Jack Pearl of West Bloomfield; sisters Blanche Van Dow of Beechurst, N.Y., Florence Lechner of Pembroke Pines, Fla.; grandchildren Andrew and Lauren E. Gerenraich. She was the wife of the late Dr. Morton S. Gerenraich. Interment in Long Beach, Calif. ELSIE BLOCK, 87, of West Bloomfield, died June 22. She is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Norman and Sharon Block of Bloomfield Hills; daughters and sons-in-law Eileen and Samuel Millstone of Farmington Hills, Judith and