Mazel Toy! Family AbecBoemn att-Soiglohvtyic erne euanlo genealogical ion becomes gical event till ALAN HITSKY Associate Editor /- IV hen Ruth and Jim Grey went to Australia five years ago, they promised Jim's cousins, former Detroiter Michael and his wife Carole Fisher, a party in Detroit if the Fishers ever came for a visit. Last year, the Fishers informed the Greys they would be in Detroit as part of an anniversary trip. Jim Grey began plotting for a parry that developed into a massive family reunion in May. Nearly 150 descendants of Mordecai Bennett and Mordecai Solovich from throughout the United States, as well as Canada, England and Australia, came to Detroit for the reunion. The last time these families met for a large event was at a 1941 dinner of the Bennett Club. Grey assembled a committee of interested cousins and volunteers, including Barya and Allen Berlin, Sarah Berlin, Joani Cohen, Ellen and Michael Cole, Linda and Henry Lee, Sheri Lee, Geri and Mel Lester, Amy Steinberg, and Melanie and Marty Weiss. During the reunion weekend, Aaron and Donnie Shelden and Byron Canvasser enjoy a game at Tiger Stadium. "We got a bunch of community leaders who know how to get things done," Grey said. The group worked six months on the reunion weekend. The featured events were a Saturday dinner at the Birmingham Temple and Sunday brunch at Temple Beth El. Each person received a customized personal kinship list and ancestry list, along with a family roster and e-mail list. In addition, the committee produced a $60 reunion book. It contained the family history, descendant books in genealogy Double cousin Jim Grey, Australians Carol and format, birthday, Michael Fisher (he's a Solovich), and double cousin anniversary and burial Ellen Grey Cole hold enlargements of historic family lists and family pho- photographs. tographs dating back to 1906. Genealogy branches for each family line were displayed at the parties. Grey, treasurer of the Jewish Genealogical Society of Michigan and outgoing president of the Jewish Historical Society of Michigan, said the families' genealogical database included 2,700 names. "And it took a decade of going to shiva houses to identify" the ancestors in the historic photos. At the parties, each person wore a blue dot if he were a Bennett, a yel- low dot if he were a Solovich, and both dots if he were a "double cousin." The guests enjoyed meeting family members they didn't know and discovering how they were related. Seventeen cousins, mostly strangers to each other, attended a Detroit Tigers game Saturday after- noon and reminisced. One cousin, former Detroiter Aaron Shelden, was an usher for the Tigers in 1941. He )3 sat at the game with his brother Donnie and cousin Byron Canvasser, who were roommates in college. On Sunday morning, many attended the monument unveiling of Lucille Lee (a Solovich) at Clover Hill Park Cemetery and Lee Epstein Cole (a Bennett) at Beth El Memorial Park. The youngest reunion attendee was eight-month-old Aaron Bennett Weiss. The oldest was 94-year-old Sally Bennett of Arizona. Greetings from Israeli cousins included a letter from Aura Herzog, widow of Israeli President Chaim Herzog. Grey expects a follow-up event, "perhaps in five years." Meanwhile, the family will be able to keep in communication through e-mail, per- haps one day creating a Web site, and via "snail mail" with an annual newsletter. Many cousins already have vacations planned with their newly discovered relatives. I I 6/18 1999 Detroit Jewish News 55