Mazel Toy! Sandy Lax and Stan Moretsky were married by the Sea of Galilee. The Moretskys added a new dimension to Michigan's Miracle Mission. LAURA FELDER Special to the Jewish News S tan Moretsky and Sandy Lax knew they wanted their reli- gious wedding ceremony to happen on Michigan's third Miracle Mission to Israel in April. They just didn't know where or when. Then their tour bus drove along- side the Sea of Galillee and they knew Tiberias was the ideal location. "It was the perfect place," Moretsky said. "It was very beautiful and very meaningful." The two were legally married prior to the Mission in a civil cere- mony performed by their friends, Michigan Supreme Court Justice Marilyn Kelly and U.S. District Judge Bernard Friedman, at Wabeek Country Club in West Bloomfield. Stan and Sandy had met years ago in Huntington Woods while carpooling their children. They started to date eight years ago and decided the Mission would be the right time to get married. It is the second marriage for both. Having previously been through for- mal weddings, with all of the trap- pings, they decided to do something different this time. "The idea was to do the Jewish part in Israel," said Moretsky, 55, a surplus broker. Lax, a 50-year-old financial planner, said the Mission schedule and the location made Tiberias the right spot. There was enough time for the cere- mony and the location was "beautiful and romantic." Moretsky said the Mission partici- pants knew something was going on, and his rabbi from Congregation Beth Shalom, Mission participant David Nelson, definitely knew of the planned nuptials. "At the last minute, we said, 'OK everybody, we're getting married,"' Moretsky said. "We just did it. We just kind of winged our way through it." Four of the travelers created a chupah by raising Moretsky's tallit on poles. The wedding was per- formed by Rabbi Nelson with the aid of flashlights. Moretsky ended the ceremony with the tradition of stepping on the wine glass and everyone celebrated with glasses of - wine. Rabbi Nelson said the wedding was fabulous. It was the perfect set- ting under the stars." Although the Moretskys did not choose the site for its religious signifi- cance, Nelson noted the importance of Tiberias as a holy city of scholars and a place of refuge. After the trip, the Morets returned to begin married life in Birmingham. P " 6/11 1999 Detroit Jewish News 59