MOWS WATCH Feeling Goose Bumps In Synagogue l t r aaW n : • How do we trans- as a life experience. Foremost, the synagogue should be o matter how observant we By doing so, they form such indiffer- a haven to learn and to teach. It are, the synagogue is the would begin to reach ence? should be the great equalizer, a com- gateway to our Jewish soul the uninvolved and It's partly by shul mon ground. Social standing shouldn't and the epicenter of our under-involved — and leaders making their count. Nor should the degree of Juda- spiritual lives. introduce many of them congregants feel ic commitment — that's no So says Dr. Ron Wolfson, to what's beyond the empowered and partly one else's business. one of the architects of Syn- synagogue foyer. by congregants opening Synagogues collect dues agogue 2000, a national Ultimately, we must themselves to divine to operate — there's no \outreach that's geared to decide individually how inspiration. denying that. But I wonder /energize shuls of the 21st much, or how little, to Studying together in how many of the complain- century. make shul part of our synagogue is one way for ers who say "all synagogues The synagogue is impor- lives. But I hope each congregants to unite Jew- want is my money" ever ven- tant to our Jewish lives, but decision is based on ishly and, in the process, ture inside one to survey the it's not essential. The spiritu- knowledge, not heresy. affirm their Jewish iden- range of services and pro- al enrichment that good I was moved by how tity — perhaps the most Dr. Ron Wolfson grams. ones provide, however, is ROBE RT A. Dr. Wolfson put it: enduring way. That apathy is corn- invaluable. SKL AR Jews come to syna- To truly appreciate pounded by parents who So I was intrigued by Edi for gogue for lots of reasons, not the least the history, customs and rituals of our drop their kids off for 'Nhat Wolfson had to say of which is the kishkas connection — 4,000-year-old faith, Jewishly ignorant Hebrew school, a bar/bat during an April stop at the a connection not of the head but of adults must resolve to study our sacred mitzvah or confirmation class and Max M. Fisher Federation Building in the heart." texts at their comfort level, without then drive off, because there's little Bloomfield Township. being pressured to conform. What inside the synagogue speaking passion- "We want a synagogue to be engag- better place to become motivated to ately to them. ing, stimulating and fulfilling," said To leave a message for Robert do just that than in shul? So it's not surprising that studies the animated, kippa-wearing professor. Sklar, please call (248) 354-6060, For their parr, clergy and lay leaders show less than half of all Jewish house- "We want the answer to be 'yes' to ext. 258, or send e-mail to: must dispel the notion that synagogue is holds (Jews from birth who maintain the question, 'Am I moved?' rsklar@thejewishnews.com synonymous with unrelated religious a Jewish identity) belonging to a syna- \ , -- "We're always in search of the events. Instead, they should talk up shul gogue. , goose-bump moments. That's true. But do we find them? Surely, some of us do. We feel the goose bumps. But for others, the synagogue is more likely to be service oriented — nothing more than a repository for the rhythms of our Jewish activities. _ Variously, it's a house of worship, a He believes peace will be hollow unless both Jerusalem ischool building, a study hall, a ban- Jews and Arabs work at it. "It may take genera- s an editor, I'm always interested in quet site, a meeting spot, a social tions," he said, "but we've got to stop demoniz- what other journalists have to say. action outlet, a comfort zone and a ing each other." So I looked forward to hearing communal square. Bus driver Dani Elias, a Haifa native, Stuart Associate Editor Jerusalem Report Wolfson, affiliated with the Univer- 1 opposes statehood given the disarray in April 23 in Schoffman, who addressed tourists sity of Judaism in Los Angeles, calls Palestinian leadership. "In both Jordan and Miracle capital during the third Michigan Israel's the typical North American shul "a Egypt, we spoke with one man to achieve Mission. kind of Jewish shopping mall." peace. With the Palestinians, there's Arafat, His talk was on Palestinian statehood — He writes: "It's where Jews come the Jihad, Hamas. Beyond land, the Pales- which, he said, is inevitable, no matter who when they need something — a High tinians will need us to help supply them with becomes Israel's next prime minister. The timing Stuart Scho an Holiday seat, a religious school for the an army, police and airplanes. And I'm suspi- Schoffman and the terms are open to debate, kids, a rabbi on call — or when they cious of that," Elias said. "I don't believe real said but not statehood itself. are invited to a simcha or, God forbid, peace is possible." "War, nobody wants," he said. a funeral." Elias wonders why the Palestinians can't continue to live The majority of Israelis believe in the essence of the Baby Boomers especially, he in the West Bank and Gaza Strip but under Israel's control. there's a difference in said, although Oslo Accords, he writes, are looking for something Tour guide Frances Oppenheimer, a Jerusalem resi- depth of understanding and level of concern. more: "We've made it materially. dent who made aliya from New Zealand 30 years ago, "Most Israelis are on board," Schoffman said. "The We've got our beepers and cell thinks statehood is a good idea. train, in effect, has left the station." \-9hones and Land Cruisers. But we're "Statehood is something the Palestinians would not In fact, half of all Israelis believe the Palestinians left with that great existential ques- want to lose," she said. "So maybe if they got it, they deserve their own state, said the editor. tion, immortalized by Peggy Lee: 'Is would devote themselves to building an economy and an "And that's not an expression of a Good Neighbor that all there is?' So we search for educational system. Then maybe we can have true peace." Award or a Good Terrorist Award," he said. "Rather, it's a spirituality in just about every place Such a contrast in opinion underscores how strongly fundamental understanding of a mature society." but the synagogue." Israelis differ on the issue of statehood — despite what Schoffinan yearns for a peace based on an apprecia- Maybe, he writes, were not search- the polls and pundits say. E tion for roads, infrastructure, the environment, English ing hard enough there — and maybe as a second language and, most importantly, "stewardship he's right. Too many of us look for — Robert A. Sklar of a land most people love." \ _ Kodak moments there rather than 7 -g o os e- bump moments. N Palestinians Will Get State, Israeli Editor Says A 5/7 1999