Combine a itzvah with a Simcha through JNF's Bar/Bat vah Program on, onvol, ylAn >e4 IN13n NM. V( SMAII ONIt IMO Off LAND&pjp yj.411 PLANT ONE TREE HAS BEEN PLANTED IN HONOR OF THE BAT MITZVAH OF ment /), SARA NORRIS MARCH 12, 1999 BY ROBERT H SCHWARTZ, PRESIDENT JEWISH NATIONAL FUND, MICHIGAN Z100 WEST TEN MILE ROAD SOUTHF/ELD, MI 48075 Samples of certificate s with tradi and new designs will be sent on requ eautiful Jewish National Fund tree certifi- cates, such as the one shown, can serve as invitations to your child's bar or bat mitzvah, as place cards or mementos for your guests. A party in honor of Buy a minimum of 100 tree certicates at the special price of $7.50 per tree and strengthen your child's link to the land of Israel. Robert H. Schwartz Regional President JNF. Together We Can. the bride and groom can be simple, elegant Richard T. Krosnick Zone Director and inexpensive. 17100 West Ten Mile Road Southfield, MI 48075 248-557-6644 NINA LIGHT Cleveland Jewish News ome people may believe that engagement parties are passe, but I'd argue that they're more appropriate now than ever. Gone are the days when prenuptial affairs consisted of show- ers for the bride and bachelor par- ties for the groom. Today's couples typically plan most aspects of the wedding together, and they also prefer to share the celebratory events leading to the big day. An engagement party provides an excellent opportunity for the couple to take a break from the hectic pace of planning. It also allows the cou- ple's friends to meet each other, if they haven't already, and to bestow good wishes on the soon-to-be bride and groom. Hosting the party needn't be diffi- cult. For in-home parties, it's best to limit the guest list to a comfortable S The Detroit Jewish News speaks to your interests and your concerns. 4/9 1999 C50 Detroit Jewish News number. Invitations should be mailed six to eight weeks in advance. If the party is to have a theme, that infor- mation should be included in the invitation. Recently, my husband and I hosted a cocktail party centered around a wine-and-cheese theme. We bought a wine rack for the couple and asked each guest to bring a bottle of wine or liqueur, bar tools or any other item associ- ated with hosting a cocktail party. Decorated *index cards, on which guests were asked to record their favorite drink or hors d'oeuvre recipe, were also included in the envelope. The cards were presented to the couple at the party. We chose to offer a limited bar: a variety of red and white wines, as well as martinis. (Remember hosts have an ethical and legal responsibil- ity to make sure guests who have had too much to drink don't drive, so be sure to provide non-alcoholic beverages as well.) In-home parties need limited guest lists.