r S r At The Movies: `The Last Days' 72 A Moss Hart QmQ EO, Meet Joe Black At The JCC erg's Comedienne, actress and best-selling author Suzanne Somers shares her insights at Women's Campaign event. SUZANNE CHESSLER Special to The Jewish News A sk Suzanne Somers the reason for her happy ' marriage and thriving career, and she'll tell you it's having a strong partnership with _a Jewish husband. She relies on Alan Hamel to manage the business end of all her work — acting, singing, selling her own lines of jewelry and fitness equipment and writing books about emotional and physical health. "We spend 365 days a year together, 24 hours a day," says Somers, scheduled to speak March 3 at the annual Choices fund-raiser on behalf of the Allied Jewish Campaign. "My talents aren't in the same arena as his so we comple- ment one another." Somers' acting talents, which first brought her to stardom through the TV sitcom "Three's Company," also have been seen on "Step by Step." Her top product, ThighMaster, puts her before TV audiences through commercials. During the weekend of Detroit's . big snowstorm, Somers performed her Las Vegas act at the Macomb Center for the Performing Arts. In the midst of planning her upcom- ing Michigan speaking engagement, she discussed her current activities with The Jewish News: JN: What do you have planned for the Choices program? SS: I speak to inspire, pulling from my own life those things that were dragging me down and [explaining how] I found a way to use them to move forward. In other words, there are no negatives in life, only lessons, if we choose to look at it that way and not choose to be a victim. That means looking at every circumstance and asking: How can I learn from this? How can I grow from this? Where is the opportunity hidden within this negative cloud? JN: About how many speaking engagements do you have through- out the year? SS: I do between four and six a month. I speak at colleges and uni- versities and before women's groups, community groups and fund-raising groups — whoever will have me. I never planned to be on the speaking circuit, but as a result of my second book, Keeping Secrets, requests came in. I speak extempo- raneously about growing up with an alcoholic father. I always know where I'm going to begin and where I'm going to end, but I find it more interesting for me and for the audi- ence to let a flow happen. JN: As you discuss alcoholism, do you ever touch upon binge drink- ing and what parents should do if they think their children are sus- ceptible? SS: The problem with alcohol is that it is socially acceptable and available easily. When my own son was in college and beginning to use, I kept confronting him until finally he admitted it. He went through this phase very quickly. Also, because of my background — I have alcoholic sisters, an alcoholic brother, an alcoholic and drug addicted other brother, an alcoholic father, alcoholic grandparents and countless [alcoholic] aunts and uncles — I was very vigi- lant and knew the signs immediately. We really got on top of it quickly and hopefully bypassed any serious prob- lems he might have had. He's a film director [now], and he and his wife have a company where they produce, write and direct commer- cials, infomercials and music videos. JN: How are you currently dividing your professional time? - SS: My husband and I are involved in many, many things. I have a line of Suzanne Somers jewelry, which we sell on home shop- ping. There's a line of fitness equipment, and we're coming out with the Facemaster, a mag- ical little machine that gives the appearance of a facelift without surgery. My sixth book, Get Skinny on Fabulous Food, comes out next month. I just finished starring in a television movie that we shot in Vancouver, and I do "Candid Camera" every week. I also tour with my nightclub act. JN: What does each segment of your professional life express about you as an individual? SS: I find that everything that I do involves my ability to connect with people, and I think how we help one another as human beings is SOMERS-TIME on page 75 Suzanne Somers: "I do an incredible seder"