hon /Leon Mu Pho tos courtesy of Camp , • • . Z. Parents and children seek out-of-state camping experiences for a wide variety of reasons. JILL DAVIDSON SKLAR Special to The Jewish News I t could be the child's special interest, or the parents' desire that the child meet a wider variety of people. Maybe it is a family tradition or lifestyle. Whatever the reason, parents are opting to send their children out of state — at times our of the country — to camp. The relatively stable numbers are not a reflec- tion of the economy but rather of personal choices made by individual families for their children. "For as many children who come to our camp [from out-of-state areas], there are probably as many reasons for them to come," said Susan Alexander, assistant director of Olin-Sang-Ruby Union Institute in Wisconsin, a camp associated 1/22 1999 64 Detroit Jewish News with Judaism's Reform Movement. Susie Pappas, Michigan representative of the Student Camp and Trip Advisors, Inc., agrees. But for the hundreds of fami- lies she has helped each year, choosing an out-of-state camp is not an avoidance of a camp in the state but rather a preference for one that happens to be in another state. "I don't think any one has ever come to me and said, `I don't want to send my kid to a Michigan camp,"' said Pappas. "They tend to pick a camp first, and then the location comes with the camp." For Sherri Ketai of Franklin, the deci- sion to send son Joshua to Camp Tamakwa in Canada was a snap. As a child and later as a counselor, she spent summer after summer on the island camp owned by a family friend. Her husband James spent summers at special-'nterest camps, such as a ski camp in Montana and a sailing camp on the East Coast. "We wanted to give him an experience that we couldn't provide for him our- selves," Sherri Ketai said. "Camping is an exercise in independence. It builds inner strength and independence, leadership qualities he will use in the future. "We wanted to send him to this partic- ular camp because of my experience there. I have such wonderful, warm memories associated with that camp. And I wanted to give him the chance to have those same kind of experiences." When their son came of age to camp last summer, she signed him up as a junior Tamakvan. When his two-week trial time ended, he called to see if he could stay another six weeks. His parents compro- mised, allowing him another two weeks of fun on the island.