U /— unoose 20% off one in stock item of your choice thru Jan. 16, 1999 One item per person per day. Limited list of items are excluded. \ /—' Clothes Friends, also in West Bloomfield. What made these shops unique? "Personal service," according to Fay- Ann Popkin, who spent 10 years with Ray and Ida. "Good advice," claims Passman. "I always told my customers to buy one bottom and two tops. I said people won't remember the pants, but they will remember what you wear on top." Popkin recalls, "We told our cus- tomers what to wear with what. You can't find that in the department stores." "Limited selection," adds Susan Sovel of West Bloomfield, another shopper who speaks nostal- gically of the smaller specialty shops. "Today's department stores overwhelm me. Loyal shoppers were the mainstay for Ray Epstein. She and her moth- er, the late Ida Cohen, started Ray and Ida in Cohen's basement in northwest Detroit. Problems with the zoning commission moved them to Oak Park; they opened a second store at Applegate Square in Southfield in 1976. Epstein elabo- rated on the discount concept when she held semi-annual 50- and 75- percent off sales. "Customers would line up outside the door," she recalls. Her other specialty was buying for every pocketbook. "I had moder- ate to expensive ensembles, from $250 to $5,000. I felt a pride in dressing people." Still, one by one, the shops began to close. Some owners faced declin- ing revenues. Others, like Rosalie Gold, Ray Epstein, Renee Rochlin and the late Shirley Klein, confront- ed significant life changes. Stiliman's mother died; her husband, Sol, became gravely ill. After 35 success- ful years she closed her business to care for him. Rochlin and Klein had happily outfitted stylish women at their Dickens boutique for 23 years, but both felt the need to close to care for their ailing mother. "We also wanted to spend more time with our husbands. Rosalie Gold's closing is happy. After celebrating a 60th birthday, she says she began to re-think her life. Even with a sizable, experienced sales staff, she usually worked six days a week. Her sales figures were respectable; her landlord fair; her customers devoted; her 17 employ- ees loyal and dependable. But she craved more leisure time for golf and grandchildren; more time for new interests: computers and Hebrew. Gold attributes her success and longevity to adapt- ing to the times. During the six buying trips she made annually to New York, she gradually ordered fewer suits and —Rosalie Gold cocktail clothes and more sports and weekend wear. "Tastes have changed," she observes. "Young people are in jeans and ten- nis clothes. The workforce is more casual." Rochlin also noted changes that led to her closing: "The women were getting older, and the clothes were getting shorter." Gold is far from disillusioned about the retail business. She leaves the door open for a return, perhaps to a smaller shop with fewer respon- sibilities. "I loved the business," she exclaims. "My customers became my friends." Passman, who closed the Clothes Pin on West Bloomfield's Boardwalk in 1989, also has fond memories of her business. "I still miss it terribly." She attributes her boutique's decline to less demand for discounts and more competition from prestige department stores such as Nieman Marcus and Saks Fifth Avenue. A resident of Windsor, Passman still chooses to work part-time, commut- ing to downtown Detroit. Her sis- ter, Ada, now living in Scottsdale, works part-time at the Gap. However, Gary Alpert, who oper- ated the popular Sylvia's with his late mother, Sylvia Alpert, is less apt to return to retailing. "We had a good run," he says, recalling 25 good years before the investment became greater than the return. Alpert found that the early '90s brought frustrations. "Larger stores had shipping priorities, and the quality of merchandise changed. Some lines wouldn't discount." Sales dwindled. "People don't get dressed like they used to. A lot of our cus- tomers died, and many moved to Florida. A whole generation has gone." "My customers became my friends." ) 5 5 ) Like Gold, Epstein burned out from overloading responsibilities. "Nobody knows the nights you're thinking about what to put on sale or what dress didn't come in for a wedding. I was in New York every six weeks. I shopped 45 manufactur- ers to find the best price, the most unique fashions. New York wore me out. Marketing consultant Fred Marx's overview of the changing retail scene includes the reminder that privately-owned shops such as B. Siegel, Kay Baum, the RB Shops and Himelhoch's are long gone, and so are now the discount specialty shops. "Clothes were an expression at one time," he says. "That expres- sion today is found in homes or travel or trips to the spa. You can wear a T-shirt from the Gap with a Prada handbag. There is more inter- est in cappuccino than clothes." Are there opportunities for wannabe boutique owners? Frances Berger, Ray and Ida's chic former manager, is pessimistic. She believes that discount is dead because department stores routinely mark down their merchandise within weeks of its arrival. Alpert says yes if the person has good management skills and can commit substantial time and effort. Gold is less certain that wannabes are out there. "I started at age 39," she points out: "My children were grown. Today's 39-year-olds are just starting their families. They're dri- ving car pools and working out. When we were that age, we didn't know about boxercise, spinning, and Pilates!" I I DOLL HOUSES • MINIATURES • TRAINS • CRAFTS • BRIO • DOLLS • PLAYMOBIL • GAMES • BIRTHDAY PARTY GIFT IDEAS Muffy VanderBear Party Saturday, Jan. 9, 11-3 v. MEET MUFFY — Fun • Games • Treats Call hotline for details. 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