10 tut Side „ lit Spoip, Sholem Aleichem and even the pho- tographs of Roman Vishniac don't present a complete view, nor do they reflect the changes that modernity and Zionism brought to the shtetl. She explains that not all shtetl Jews were poor, nor were their lives uni- form, nor were women powerless. Dr. Eliach refutes those reviewers who have characterized Once There Was A World as a yizkor book, refer- ring to memorial volumes published about specific towns by survivors that are more like community albums. She notes that those books were not researched historically, rather they were based on various people's memo- ries and viewpoints. "I wanted this to be an accurate his- torical document," she says. She gath- ered diaries, letters, public records and other resources in private and public archives — some newly accessible after the break-up of the former Soviet Union and interviewed as many people who once lived in the town as she could locate, traveling to six conti- nents. She explains that she document- ed "every element of their testimony" as well as her own memories. Some former residents of Eishyshok were reluctant to talk. But many were eager to share their stories, affirming, as her father said, that "at least the people, and perhaps even God, will remember that there once was a world filled with faith, Judaism and humanity." Featuring 430 photographs, the beautifully designed book tells the sto- ries behind the photos: of how life was lived, what mattered to these people, descriptions of home interiors, kid- dush arrangements after Shabbat ser- vices, marital decisions, treatment of the mentally ill, the resolution of com- munal disputes in the synagogue, reli- gious conversion, the coming of elec- tricity and movies to the shtetl. One theme that emerged from her research, she explains, regards the position of women. In Eishyshok, women wielded power. Successful in owning and running businesses, they spoke more languages than the men and were also in command at home; some acquired learning too. She found evidence that the rabbis granted women permission to recite the mourner's Kaddish in synagogue when no male members of their fami- ly were present. Dr. Eliach came up with the idea for documenting the normal life of her shtetl back in 1979, while in Europe as a member of President Carter's Holocaust Commission. On a flight between Warsaw and Kiev somewhere above her hometown — she began thinking that she wanted to create a memorial ro life, not death, and chose pre-war Eishyskok as her model. As a Guggenheim fellow, she traveled to the town in 1987 and, by coincidence, met the nanny who saved her in the 1941 massacre. This woman showed her all around the town and brought her to her grand- mother's house, where her mother was murdered. But she couldn't go inside. (She did go inside last year with the PBS crew, and stood with her hus- band, daughter and grandchildren on the very spot her mother was shot.) At the mass graves of the thousands of men and women killed in 1941, she became mesmerized with images of the town as she knew it. She recalls feeling surrounded by the townspeo- ple, who were not skulls and bones but very much alive, skating, celebrat- JOE SIPAS World Headquarters 13791 E. 12 Mile Road, just east of Schoenherr • Warren (810) 415-8889 • Pizza • Pool • Burgers • Beer • Booze Your Host, Joey Weiss THE GALLERY RESTAURANT Enjoy gracious dining amid a beautiful atmosphere of casual elegance BREAKFAST LUNCH DINNER OPEN 7 DAYS: MON.- SAT. 7 a.m.- 9:30 p.m. SUN. 8 a.m.- 9 p.m. West Bloomfield Plaza • 6638 Telegraph Road and Maple • 248-851-0313 Yaffa Eliach: '7 heard them talking to me, this is the way you should remember us." ing bar mitzvahs, smiling. "I heard them talking to me, this is the way you should remember us." Later, back in New York, when she conveyed this experience to the museum's exhibition designers, the idea for the tower of photographs was born. Dr. Eliach's collection of photographs from Eishyshok numbers 10,000. Her own connection to photography goes back to the shtetl where her grandpar- ents were the town photographers. Hanging in her Manhattan study is an enlargement of the last photo taken by her grandmother before she was killed in 1941: 4-year old Yaffa in a gingham dress surrounded by chickens. The 61-year old professor and her husband, Rabbi David Eliach, who met when he was her high school principal in Israel, have lived in New York since 1954. Ceaselessly positive, Professor Eli- ach says she enjoys her "normal life." But Eishyshok — the first word pro- nounced by many of her 12 grandchil- dren — is never far away. H Subscribe to JN for all the latest news and entertainment! 24-t3 3S4 aatekivt OUTSIDE OUR RESTAURANT FOR PARTIES 20 to 500 Featuring Ristorante di Modesta's Famous Cuisine of Outstanding Favorites P's-toxavt-te, Di ,Vodesto, IN MARKET STREET SHOPPES 29400 NORTHWESTERN HWY. • SOUTHFIELD (248)358-0344 12/11 1998 Detroit Jewish News 101