s •Vs , • Scene DARCI SMITH Special to The Jewish News hen Karen Merkle moved to the Big Apple after law school, she had every intention of returning to Michigan someday. She just didn't realize that some- day would come so soon. "I moved there wanting to practice outside of Michigan and get some good work experience," explained Karen, 27, who graduated from Northwestern School of Law in 1996. The job offer with a large Manhattan law firm was right up her alley, given its focus on corporate finance and mergers and acquisitions — Karen's chosen specialties. She intended to stay in New York for three years, but after a year and a half Karen received an offer she couldn't refuse: an in-house legal position with General Motors Corp. Taking into account that such an opportunity isn't easy to come by, she relocated back to Michigan in May, settling in Birmingham. "I was very much nervous to come back," Karen said. Although there were great opportunities on the career front and it was won- derful to be back near her family, she explained, what lay ahead socially and personally was not as clear. You've heard it before, maybe even uttered the phrase in your teen years: Detroit's boring. But it's not, really. What many young adults are finding is that, while other, big-time cities with bright lights and fast action may have lured them away after college, Detroit's provincial feel and excellent job market, not to mention their family ties, are pulling them back home after years away. And they like being back. While living out-of-state for six years, Karen found that many of her Detroit friends had also left, and she had lost contact with many who had stayed. A 1989 graduate of North Farmington High School, Karen contacted old friends, attended community events and tried to take advantage of every opportunity to meet people with which she was presented. "I made more effort than I've ever had to in my life to establish friendships," she said. A friendship she was able to re-establish was with former high school classmate Andy Tobias, who returned in June after spending five years in Chicago. "We were thrilled to know each other was here," Karen said. It was also a job opportunity that drew Andy back to Detroit. Andy, who earned a law degree from DePaul in 1996, interviewed for a job with Marcus & Millichap, the largest real estate invest- ment brokerage company in the country, and found that they had recently opened an office in Detroit. The company gave Andy, 27, the option of working in either Detroit or Chicago. Although he had always planned on returning to Detroit at some point, the decision took nearly a month to make. "I had a lot of good friends in Chicago, and it was very difficult to leave that city," Andy explained. "It's a great city" In the end, though, the opportunity to live near his family and • 12/4 1998 102 Detroit Jewish News Karen Merkle: "I was very nervous to come back."