thrown off schedule, your woe will be contagious. Bloomfield Hills interior designer and builder Roberta Madorsky hosts 20 to 40 guests any given Thanksgiving — including her two daughters, sons-in- law and husband Erwin — with little signs of trauma. As a business person, she learned long ago that empowering others with responsibilities such as bringing appetizers, side dishes and desserts, allows guests to feel part of the celebration, and frees her to enjoy the occasion. "We're all leading busy lives — message machine, pager, car phone, etc. — having everybody bring things makes Thanksgiving g easier," said Madorsky. The :3 process of creating brings on the anticipation of the holiday. 0 0 Madorsky does the big stuff like setting tables, cre- ating centerpieces and organizing. Then she decides what she'll cook and then assigns. "I make the turkey, cornbread stuff- ing and an apple tart or other dessert," she said. "Then everybody brings the rest. I feel if you're going to return to the same venue year after year, peo- ple will enjoy it more if they contribute. And they're on stage for the appetizer or dessert. Anticipation is part of the entertainment." Like most at-ease hosts, Madorsky doesn't comman- deer the holiday meal or dictate what others will bring. "Certain foods are brought every year," said Madorsky. "My niece makes manicotti for hors d'oeuvres, someone else makes stuffed mushrooms and another brings spinach dip. And we usually serve the traditional Madorsky cookie, a sugar cookie cut into gingerbread peo- ple shape. "I let people make what they want to make, then I coordinate everyone's dishes. People usually make what they make best. Some people like to go out l A.NNA.BEL COHEN vectal to The Jewish 7 \iretuss hank good- ness for the help! Thanksaivinc, couldn't fall at a busier time of ar. Practically on the heels of the High Holidays and Sukkot, and just before a major, mostly unproductive holiday season, most people are stuck in overdrive until well past the big ball drop of 1999. Holidays should be fun — or at least sane. To makes your holiday entertaining successful, for starters, a quick plan of action is in order. Then, you must 40"44* do three important r4TAWN"F.',164,.' y Xfir#10W tasks: delegate, delegate ,=,:zd delegate. Only then, will a sane your life simpler and you'll still want Thanksgiving dinner to give thanks at the end of the celebration be yours. evening. Don't over-regiment the A quick plan is just that. Do write evening. A rule-with-an-iron-fist, over- down your guest list, what you must ly organized gathering will feel artifi- do, what you would like to serve, cial and forced. And if you're the type what cooking, flower arranging, table who crumbles at a timetable that's setting you can handle. It will make • on a limb and make something they've never made before, and some people feel more comfortable making what they know." If you're not the devil-may-care sort and like to know just exactly what you're getting, you may want to assign the things you'd like others to bring, even providing amount guidelines. On the whole, most folks enjoy Thanksgiving with the works: turkey, stuffing, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce. Madorsky's no different. "I'm not a re-invent-the-wheel kind of per- son," she said. "Generally, I like sim- ple foods. "It's what happens, and how people feel, that matters. It's not important to be fancy. It's just nice to enjoy the aura of it all and the coming togeth- er. Some Thanksgiving recipes: KASHA STUFFED MUSHROOMS These can be made and frozen, uncooked. You can then bake and serve or bake them ahead of time and reheat in the microwave oven just before serving. 20 large mushrooms, stems removed and reserved 2 T olive oil 1 cup chopped onions 1 10-ounce package frozen chopped spinach, thawed, excess water squeezed out 1 cup cooked kasha (buckwheat groats) 1/4 cup chopped parsley 1/2 cup cream or coffee creamer Salt and pepper to taste Preheat oven to 400E Place mushroom caps on a cookie sheet. Chop stems fine by hand or in the bowl of a food proces- sor. Set aside. Heat oil in a large non- stick skillet over high heat. Add onions and saute for 3 minutes. Add mush- rooms and cook until they give up their liquid and the liquid evaporates. Add spinach, kasha and parsley and cook for 3 minutes more, stirring. Add the cream and cook until the cream is evaporated and the mixture appears creamy. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Spoon this stuffing into the mushroom caps and bake for 15 minutes until the mushrooms are softened. Makes 20 stuffed mushroom caps. ZUCCHINI AND EGGPLANT BAKE Nothing's easier to make or serve than a casserole. This one's an interest- ing combination that's surprisingly good. 11/20 1998 Detroit Jewish News 113