HELPING JEWISH FAMILIES GROW" More Inside: From The Editor: Kaleidoscope: AppleTree readers respond to an irate grandparent. A call for youngsters to get colorfully wild for Thanksgiving. Let's Talk Turkey! Great ideas for making a memoraole Thanksgiving when you can't have 10 hours to create a straw decoration. Elizabeth Applebaum AppleTree Editor W hether you're planning a quiet dinner for just you and your children or one that includes everyone from in-laws to the boss ("Don't I pay you enough to get a really nice dining-room set, dear?") and her husband, Big Bubba ("Hope you got plenty of beer here! It just isn't Thanksgiving without beer, now is it?") and their six children ("But we don't want stuffing with nuts! We hate nuts! Ugh! We want to go homer) and their dog because they do not, do not leave her at home — Thanksgiving requires a great deal of preparation. There's the turkey, of course, or a tofu version thereof if you're vegetarian. But what makes the evening memo- rable is more than food. It's perfecting that le ne soils quoi — those extra touches — that special something that has brought millions to Martha Stewart, not to mention secured her own line at Kmart. (Love those towels, Martha!) In her wondrous IV programs, Martha has been known — let's be honest — to come up with projects that take a good 10 hours each, such as creating a straw decora- tion from an orange ("First, carve slowly around the entire orange, making a thin, delicate, single piece of the peel. This will take patience! When at last you're done, shape • \ A 1 V i peel around the straw. Freeze."). Cer- tainly, this project is perfect for a busy executive or moth- er of 10, but what about the rest of us average pro- letarians who have nothing to do all the livelong day? Well, friends, this column is exactly what you're looking for! So get ready for great ideas for a real- ly fun Thanksgiving. #1) Award A Few Golden Turkeys Of Your Own: Each year, author Harry Medved begins the arduous task of selecting the worst films of the year. He has even compiled these into a book, perhaps the most important collection of our time and a must for each and every home, called The 50 Worst Films of All Time. THE BIG STORY on page 102