a qi What hand did fate deal you? KATHY SHAFRAN Special to The Jewish News KRISTA HUSA Photographer Kol Ami, host to the homeless for a week, learns some lessons. lien and Jolanta lived a com- fortable life in Hamtramck. They had cars, a house, boats, motorcycles. And they were comfortable enough to be able to help other family members with finan- cial problems. Two years ago, it all came apart, seemingly in the blink of an eye. Allen was disabled in a freak acci- dent at work. Months later, their unin- sured house burned to the ground. Family, suddenly, was nowhere to be found. Allen and Jolanta were forced to sell their possessions to afford a nightly motel room. With possessions gone and Jolanta's minimum wage job covering little, they soon ended up living on the streets. "I thought I was ready to kill myself," reflected Jolanta last week from her 10/30 1998 28 Detroit Jewish News temporary bedroom at West Bloomfield Township's Temple Kol Ami. "I couldn't see sleeping on the streets anymore, being wet and hungry. When I didn't think I could possibly last anymore," she said, "we got into the program." The program is S.O.S. or the South Oakland Shelter. In operation since 1985, it tries to help people escape homelessness. The idea is to provide the homeless with a place to sleep and shower and three meals a day. Participants must save 75 percent of their income, so, eventually they can accumulate first and last month's rent to start life in their own apartment. "The concept is simple," says the shelter's executive director Lillian Melville. "The only problem is that, because of neighborhood concerns, we never were zoned - for a permanent shel- ter. So we sought assistance." Eight churches signed up in the first year; now, 60 churches and synagogues help. Temple Kol Ami was the fourth Jewish institution to add its name to the list. And Kol Ami's opportunity to assist SOS clients came last week. Volunteers from the Temple's Social Action committee worked diligently to make their 30 "house guests" comfort- able. Kol Ami's reception hall was transformed into a living/dining room. The temple's library was converted into a bedroom that could sleep about a dozen women and children. The lower level offered bedroom space for the men. The fridge in the temple's kitchen was packed to overflowing. "I took a week off work to do it," said the pfoject's co-organizer, Sallyjo Levine, who felt a calling to this project. "I'm very lucky, I have been lucky all my life with a wonderful family and home. And I often hear my mother's voice reminding me, 'From those to whom much is given, much is expected.' A bar mitzvah boy turned in $250 he had raised in bottle collections. Food donations never stopped. Some volun- teers turned out for overnight shifts. Others offered to be at the temple at 5 in the morning to transport the home- less to the pick-up points for their jobs. . In all, nearly half of the 430 families at Kol Ami volunteered donations or time. "It was so heart warming, says Barbara Osher of the Social Action committee. "It just kept pouring in," said Susan Zeltzer, head of the food committee. But perhaps even more rewarding 41_