EdItoR's NoTe WHICH SUMMER EXPERIENCE IS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD? LET ME HELP YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE! Overnight Camps •Specialty Camps •Teen Tours •School-US & Abroad Wilderness Trips • Language-Cultural Exchange •Community Service • Biking — Sailing •Sports — Arts .} ,- Honey an alarm. I can pretty much guess y children are just what time it is without looking at beginning to learn to a clock. tell time, and it is not I also know that even if you an easy process. We always get have been playing Barbies with ituck on those all-important five- your children for a mere 20 min- : minute increments. , utes it will actually be 200 hours "So, when the little hand is on — unless, like me, you liven the 12 and the big hand is on things up a bit and have the Bar- the 5, it's five minutes after 1 2, bies eaten by plastic dinosaurs. right?" Yitz asks me. Where I fall short is "No," I say, and understanding how it is begin the whole expla- that my children are ation again. "You growing before my very see, each of those eyes, how time is numbers marks five swirling about them so minutes ..." fast it makes me dizzy. A child's concept of And it's changing them, time is so unlike that of turning them into big an adult's. A boy or kids, then teens, then girl understands about, adults. Yes, this is a ;Wand generally hates, time that I do not know. bedtime. My daughter knows she I read once that honey never will spend 15 minutes each night spoils, that archaeologists in on her English homework, and Egypt found honey in the another 15 on her Hebrew read- pharaohs' tombs and it was still ing. My son loves a TV show fresh. Imagine, everything that called "Little Bear," which he happened in all those thousands I :A) knows comes on sometime after of years — wars and kings and breakfast. But they don't necessar- queens and new countries and ily eat at the generally recog- medical discoveries'— and still nized lunch hour, "It will only take here was this honey, sweet and you 10 minutes to clean up the fresh, never changing. basement" means nothing to This is how it is for a parent, I them, and "We are leaving Dis- think. Time goes on, of course, covery Zone because we have and it alters everything. With your 4peen here for three hours" might eyes you see that your children as well be said in a foreign lan- are growing and moving on guage. you're happy because this is as it I, on the other hand, am an should be. But in your heart, extremely schedule-oriented, time- deep inside the dark tomb of your : focused person. I hate being late body, your sons and daughters with anything from appoint- are always young, always yours. ments to birthday cards. I have a They are your honey, sweet and Istist, and I must get everything on fresh, never changing. ❑ it done. Life is tightly and neatly organized. I should have been in the military. I'm good about measuring the passage of time, too, though I Elizabeth Applebaum have yet to manage my husband's AppleTree Editor of waking up early without SUSIE PAPPAS (248) 540-9885 Student Camp & Trip Advisors, Inc. A Free Service Since 1970 TRANSFER YOUR HOME MOVIES 8mm - 16mm TO VHS CENTURS WA16 r 1 Film Length In Feet 8mm & Super 8 & 16 1-200 Feet $20.00 201-400 Feet $26.00 401-600 Feet $39.00 601-800 Feet $52.00 801-1000 Feet $65.00 On Any Video Transfer Century Camera 288-5444 Film Over 1,000 Feet Add 6c A Foot (Video Tape $8.) Additional) } VISA Fall Special FREE BACKGROUND MUSIC With This Coupon. Expires 11/23/98 30533 N. WOODWARD ROYAL OAK (3 Blocks South of 13 Mile) 248-288-5444 Daily & Saturday 10-6 El Friday 10-8 It AL I, IONS (248) 583-1300 fax: (248) 583-1305 31051 stephenson hwy madison heights, mi 48071 under new ownership NEEd EW COAT? CIIECk OUT ThE PAINTERS ANd WALLPAPER HANERS IN OUR MARkETplACE HOME ANd SERVICE GUIdE ST4w;R* TRAX EVENT PRODUCTIONS THE GREATEST INTERACTIVE ENTERTAINMENT IN THE COUNTRY! (AND WE'RE RIGHT IN YOUR BACKYARD) St VIDEO SPECIAL PRICING FOR WEDD INGS St BARMITZVAHS (248) 932-5990 LOCATED IN THE ORCHARD MALL (WEST BLOOMSIELD) American Heart Associations,, Fighting Heart Disease and Stroke 10/30 1998 h_N