Jewish from my bar mitzvah until around age 28." By that time, he'd graduated from Carnegie-Mellon University, finished his master of business administration degree at the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania and traveled through Israel, Nigeria and Turkey, and lived in Japan for four years. He speaks Japanese and Chinese with a New York accent. He first went to China two years ago to work for Compaq Computers. In Shanghai, he now owns Informatics College, a for-profit, foreign-adminis- tered university that will grant three- year degrees from overseas. Kaplan also has become an investor in education projects in China. Suddenly, he got in touch with his Jewish roots. "In Asia, I felt more Jewish than American," Kaplan said. "Asians admire the Jewish people. Americans are seen as pushy, but the Chinese relate to Jews, the longest- standing civilization in the world, with a history of learning and achievement." Jews first settled in Shanghai 150 years ago. In the 1940s there were more than 25,000 Jews in Shanghai, many of .i, them refugees who had fled the Nazi regime in Europe. After or War II, most Jews returned to the West. With help from Rabbi Arthur Schneier of Manhattan's Park East Synagogue, Kaplan became the founder of the new Jewish community of Shanghai. Though there is no rabbi in China, every few months Chabad Lubavitch sends one. The community holds Passover seders and provides kosher food, tefillin and mezuzot. They are in the process of creating a center where they can hold regular weekly ser- vices, and they hope to have a perma- nent rabbi within a year. Shanghai, according to Kaplan, is the most Westernized city in China, one on the cutting edge. He says New York City and Shanghai have a lot in common. "They're both fast-paced, you can feel the energy on the street, and we're all obnoxious," he says. Though he's lonely, he's had some interesting visitors recently, including Secretary of State Madeleine Albright and Hillary and Chelsea Clinton. Kaplan's dream is to build a Jewish family in Shanghai. So if you know a traditional, shomer Shabbat, open- minded, good-looking, cosmopolitan woman between the ages of 22 and 34, have her e-mail him at Post Office Box 30-56/Shanghai 200030. Kaplan will be back in New York this month for two weeks, he says, "God willing." 0 \VKEN s\:FRANien,:;:twm Jingles A local writer, who wants to be anonymous, takes some poetic liberties with the singles scene and the culture of ersonal ads. am white seeking o tall es danctng counhy music GSM old-fitshioned values important looking for similar to date long embraces oznt Free-thinking burly nature boy to you l it r e . 30 s iS7iiefiOn, and h*alikar.0E::” ortant.. - 10/2 1998 Detroit Jewish News 71