HEALTH AND SPORTS More Inside: Sports: Teeing It Up For Hillel Day School L Dr. Michael Lutz and nurse Jeanette Johnson look at a patient's file. The Prostate Taboo Why Jewish women should nag their husbands. EDITH BROIDA Special to The Jewish News ewish women freely discuss mammograms and their fear of breast cancer. Jewish men are less likely to talk about PSAs and prostate cancer, even in intimate settings such as the JCC Health Club shvitz. Such reticence is dangerous. Men need to know more about prostate cancer, and possibly the best teachers may be well-informed wives, mothers or significant others. The reluctance to discuss "male trouble" became apparent to Leah Ann Kleinfeldt, director of the Detroit Medical Center Grace-Sinai Office of Development, when she searched for a promi- nent Jewish community leader to relate his per- sonal experience with prostate cancer at the DMC Sinai Heritage Ball VIII on Oct. 19. Funds from the event are earmarked for prostate cancer treatment and research. Kleinfeldt, exploring a different format for the program, was unwilling to budget large sums for a celebrity speaker. But no former patient she contacted would commit to public disclosure. "There is a stigma with this cancer," she sighs. "No one wants to talk about it. If we can just get more prostate health awareness, we will have done our job." Nationally, high profile Jewish men such as Intel CEO Andrew Grove and financier Michael Millken have publicly discussed their prostate cancer diagnosis and treatment at length, Grove in Fortune and Millken in Time. Both men mar- shaled their vast resources for extensive research, chose what they considered the most appropriate treatment, and resumed normal, demanding lives. Both follow rigid vegetarian, non-fat diets and