• 'f HELPING JEWISH FAMILIES GROW"' More Inside: From The Editor: When parents speak, children listen. Celebrate: Finding the perfect siddur for you. You Did It! Fun family projects for the holidays. Elizabeth Applebaum Special to The Jewish News 0 n the first day of Rosh Hashanah, it's not uncommon to see Jews tossing little bits of paper into lakes or rivers. These scraps float for a moment, then become soft in the water, finally sink- ing down to the dark bottom. It is the water itself that brings the papers down, though the words contained on each are like stones in the heart of the writer. The messages are confes- sions, and the ceremony is called tashlich. Though no mention of the tradition is made in the Talmud, tashlich has become for some an important way to confess their sins just as the new year begins and as Yom Kippur waits just days ahead. Why this is done at running water is likely the result of a verse in Micah 7:19, which speaks of "casting tashlich — sins — into the depths of the sea." Later schol- ars also liked to note that the confes- sions of wrongdoing could be seen only by the fish who, like God, have eyes that never close. At Sukkot, we build and decorate sukkahs. Before Pesach we clean, buy matzoh, clean, buy more matzah and yes, clean. At Purim we wear costumes and scream at the name of Haman. At Shavuot we celebrate with homemade Torah scrolls and cheesecake. What, then, are the specific traditions for one of the most important of all Jewish holidays, Rosh Hashanah (which this year begins at sundown, Sept. 20)? An Apple A Day ... The most popular is, of course, dipping apples in honey. Here's the story behind this delicious activity: The honey is all about sweetness, of course. The apple was selected because of its abundance throughout the ancient land of Israel. The Torah, the Talmud, rabbinic and kabbalistic literature all mention — and praise — the apple, an honor accorded no other fruit. When the apple is dipped in the honey, this pronouncement is recit- ed, "May it be Thy will, 0 Lord, our God and God of our fathers, to renew unto us a good and sweet year." wk\wm,mmcw,7,, ,. r atio, 4.144) 414* /410•,/,/