"We invite both students and par- ents to come view the school before they actually start classes," he said. "This way they can see some of the things we have here and how our school is set up, which seems to alle- viate a significant amount of stress." When new students start classes, they are paired with a classmate as part of a special buddy system. "The new student is shov'n where classes are and invited to sit at the lunch table of the existing student," said Raczak. "Both students involved seem to enjoy the program and it kind of gives the new student an instant friend and someone who can • answer their questions." Raczak said helping new students ger adjusted quickly is necessary to insure success. "We've found that new students have lower test scores, more academic problems and more discipline referrals than students who have been here for longer periods of time," he said. "Once they ger adjusted and feel accepted, they tend to do dramatical- ly better in all areas." For students who move into a dis- trict during the summer months, Raczak suggests that parents seek activities for their children. "It is so important that they start to meet people," he said. "It makes starting in a new school that much easier." A lot of the problems new students experience are social. Social problems can also be created by other types of events, such as a failing grade, getting cut from a sports team or an embar- rassing situation. "When a child feels like they fir in socially, things like academics tend to follow right along," Raczak said. "When a child is confident and corn- fortable in their environment, good things happen for them." If you see changes in your child's behavior that seem to resemble adult depression over a prolonged period of time, professional help may be neces- sary. "If you notice changes in eatihg or sleeping patterns or regular activities for more than four or five weeks after a significant change, you need to talk with someone about what's happen- ing," said Burch, suggesting that par- ents start with a school counselor or teacher or input. "Kids do get depressed and saying snap out of it or grow up doesn't work. Depression is a real problem for many children. It - can usually be overcome, but many times, outside help is necessary. MB. Jewelry/Torismo M.B. JEWELRY DESIGN a MFG. LTD. Applegate Square • 29847 Northwestern Hwy. Southfield, MI 48034 • (248) 356 7007 - 50 YEARS OF JEWISH PARENTS INSTITUTE Jim ON DISPLAY IN THE LOBBY OF THE D. DAN & BETTY KAHN BUILDING SEPTEMBER 4TH - 23RD JEWISH COMMUNITY CENTER OF METROPOLITAN DETROIT ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION OCTOBER 3RD FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL (248) 661-7637. 8/28 1998 Detroit Jewish News 111